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Losing a friend
I think that this girl is my best friend, or at least I thought I did. Now, she seems to like to hang out with this other girl that hates me more than me, she never laughs at any of my jokes when other people do, she ignores me sometimes, and she never hangs out with me that much around other people. I'm starting to get the feeling that she doesn't want to be friends anymore, but I just feel so bad to know that I lost a friend.
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wow that must be really tough. would you feel better about first confirming that she actually DOES have a different attitude towards you than rather jumping to conclusions? i would do that first, and see if she opens up. if she says she doens't want to talk to it, it's most probably not about you and about something personal that might have something to do with her family or something. BUT, whatever happens, don't think that you have to change YOURSELF to make her like you again, that NEVER works and you should NEVER do it for ANYONE (including a boyfriend, just telling you) so, if she says that she doesn't like you too much anymore, just say "if that's how it has to be, then i'm truly sorry" and i know you will be hurting for a few days, but you will EVENTUALLY get over it. but be glad that it happened a little before things got OUT OF HAND if you know what i mean ;)! maybe she was forced by peer pressure and that group that doesnt like you is saying that she should be bad to you and MAYBE they dropped in some lies about you. there are so many variables and circumstances, but i'm letting you be ready for all of them. this reply is running long, but just remember that you will have to let her go if she has a problem with you. if she thought you had a problem with her, then sort things out and say that maybe you were being hostile to her because you thought she was a little distant from you and that can easily be misconcepted. well, i wish you the best with your problems!
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