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Question Posted Thursday October 13 2005, 10:23 pm

hey!! thanks so much for the great advice!! =) The thing is, I've never been past making out with a guy.. so I've never seen/touched a penis lol and I'm afraid I won't know where to put my hand or what to do.. So i kinda wanted to just massage him over his pants.. any tips for that? and if i do decide to stick my hands down his pants..should i take his pants off and just leave his boxers on? or just leave his pants on? should i use 2 hands or 1? and like how do i massage it lol. And if i do stick my hands down his pants.. I dont want him to expect me to give him a handjob..bc at this moment i'm not ready to do that quite yet

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cheddar answered Friday October 14 2005, 3:00 pm:
i know it may sound realllly cheesy, but if you're going to do this, you need to talk to your guy about it!! you should set some ground rules first. if you've never been past making out, you've gotta relax! it's really just movements in the heat of the passion that'll turn him on. you can't be afraid of looking stupid or doing the wrong thing, because trust me, you probably won't get it right the first time! haha.

okay, well, you don't have to give him a handjob if you're not ready for that. and, just so you know, you will probably be shocked by what a penis looks like. some guys are gross. some guys shave, some guys don't. so, you don't have to take that step yet!

okay, well, i guess you could give him a "massage".. i'm not really clear on that! you can grind on him, if you want. which is sort of pressing yourself against him.

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