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boys, boys, boys....
im a gurl, and im 13
so 2 years ago i went out with this guy, X, for 5 months, im in 8th grade now and we are finally good friends again. so i now like guy X but he has a gf. if it was JUST a gf it wouldnt be a huge problem but his GF is my BFF. she often asks me if i like X and i always say no, and then she asks if i would go out with him if he asked i always so no or maybe...... what should i do?
--DESPERATE!
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you should NEVER brake up someone else's relationship, no matter what.
i know this is really hard to see the one you love going out with someone, but you still can't brake up his relationship!
how would you feel if you were going out with your bff's X, and she told you she liked him and broke up your relationship with him?
if you brake up their relationship, then that might also hurt your friendship with her.
the best thing to do now is to just let them keep going out.
and when they brake up, then that's your chance to tell him that you still have feelings for him.
but just make sure you don't tell him while he's going out with someone!
if you're friend asks you again if you like him and stuff, then just say no, because she might get mad if you say yes.
ask her why she keeps asking you and see what she says.
if she says she doesn't like him that much, then tell her that you really do like him, but you just didn't want to tell her because you didn't want her to get mad at you.
then maybe since she doesn't like him and she knows that you do, she'll brake up with him.
then tell him how you feel about him. but make sure you talk to him when no one else is around.
just say it like this "i sort of have feelings for you again... and i just wanted to know if you like me too or not"
and if he says yes, then maybe he'll ask you out.
but if he says no, then don't get crushed and depressed and everything. because soon you'll find someone better then him.
and it's his loss, and he'll soon realize that he missed out on a perfect girl.
when you ask your bff why she keeps asking you this and she says she still does like him, then just leave them alone.
you'll find someone better, and he's just not worth spending all this time on.
~good luck!!~
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