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online boyfriend
hey, well i am going out with someone on the internet (AIM) and i like him ALOT! like, he means alot to me. but... he lives far from me, and we talk alot and everytime we talk on aim i get so happy, and supposably i'm gonna go see him in the summer,(hopefully) and he says he loves me and everything, but i still have doubts, wut if he's cheating on me??? wut if wut he's telling me is all FAKE??? when i think of those things i get really upset, but to be honest with you, i try NOT to love him, so that way i won't get hurt. but wut if he really loves me?? and i'm trying NOT to love HIM?? i'm SOOOOOOOOOOOO comfused, and i dont know if i should keep going out with him and wait for summer too meet him or just break up with him. i dont know. PLEASE HELP MEEE!!!!! :(
14/F ******** :/ :( <-- comfused, sad, idk i have alot of different feelings right now . . .
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Sadly, there isn't a whole lot I can say about this. This is one of those sitations where you really have to throw your trust into the wind and see if it lands right. I can relate to this because a friend of mine lied to someone she knew for almost 2 years via the internet and the person she was talking to was absolutely DEVASTATED when she found out (my friend had been telling her that she was a guy). So this is just a situation where you have to just trust the person if you feel that is the right thing to do. This is why internet dating is just so unreliable. Because nothing can be what it seems. It's sad and happens all the time, people manipulating others via the net, but it happens.
If you want my honest advice. Don't do internet dating. Especially at age 14. I am not discrediting your age but there are a bunch of people out there who would love nothing more than to get into your heart, twist around, and get to the point where they want you to meet them and then they got you where you want them and you are caught completely off gaurd. I am not saying this would or will be the case, but it does happen all the time, so you should be aware of that.
Bottom line, you should probably just forget it. But if you absolutely insist on still meeting him, make sure you have 1 or 2 friends with you when you meet him and if you do meet him and everything turns out right, well then good for you.
Just remember, nothing on the net is always what it seems.
I hope this helps and you get this all worked out.
-Ryan
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