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he mad boring! There is this guy who liked me so he asked me to be with him but at first he was a nice vibrant person and noiw he is just mad boring and quit and the only time i hear him talk is when he tells me hi in the mornings and tell me bye in the evening.I really wanna break it off with him we have being seeing each other for 3 weeks now what should i do?
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Well, before we start thinking about breaking up with him, do you really want to break up with him? Do you really want to give him up 3 weeks into the relationship? Think about this. When you first start a bond with someone, its not going to be exactly what you want at first. They start out quiet. Why? Because you hardly know each other, and even if you did in fact know each other, it takes a while to start a close bond. If you do want to get closer to this guy instead of just giving up, let things go on, and try stating conversations, if you're afraid and don't know what to say, don't stress, because he'll be glad that you want to talk to him. If you start talking more, you'll become a little closer, and it will get closer as you go on. Remember that when you first start seeing someone, or get together with them, it won't start out the way you want it to, its quiet. Thats why you have to work at it to make it what you want.
If you still want to stop dating him, then you could write him a letter if you find it easier for you. Explain that you feel a little bored in the relationship and that you'd like to stop dating. Its that simple, always explain the truth, don't give him the 'I'm not ready to date' excuse, tell him your feelings, and the truth. Thank you for asking, feel free to reply with more help!
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