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rumors
ok look everyone is accusing me of making up a very ugly and nasty rumor like the whole school, but i know i didint do it because i was one of the last ppl to find out, what should i do> also my friend thinks i was talking bad about her bbehind her bakk with these other boys, but i wasent they were and i was just defending her then i told her it wasent true but she sais she dosent belive me and belives the person that told her that. i dont know what to do plz helpme
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Wow, you're in quite a pickle! For the rumor, it will die down if you just ignore what people say to you. One boy got hold of the fact that I went out with another boy and teased me about it - he faked my voice and everything. I just gave him a dirty look and continued on with my work. He dropped it right then - I never heard anyone else tease me on that subject again. If the whole school knows, it might take a bit longer, but people are hypocrits - they tell you not to do stuff when they themselves do it, too. Soon another rumor will pop up that will shrink yours to the size of a grain of rice. Meanwhile, show those people that some untrue, meaningless words won't leave a single scratch on you!
Your friend is probably confused about the talking behind her back thing. My best friend is just like that - she can't stand it when anyone says something about her when she's not in the room. Even if you truly were talking about her, everyone needs to complain to someone before they completely blow in front of the person who is ticking them off. If she can't accept that, then she's not worth it. But you weren't even doing that, you were defending her, and she still won't get the picture... ask her truly who she would rather believe: A group of low - life, lying boy scum or you, her friend who would never do anything to hurt her! That should get her thinking relationship wise, and teach her never to trust boys - they lie to get themselves out of trouble! I'm sorry I couldn't tell you more - I really hope that things work out for you!
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