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i dont know if he likes me?!
ok so there is this guy name, well lets say billybob. well he has a girlfriend name rebecca. My best friend is ashlee. We all have 3th block together. Well billybob and rebecca NEVER talk or anything. and in class everyday, me and billybob flirt all the time. he always finds ways to touch me, then i will hold his hand so he cant do it again, then when i let go, he starts tickling me all over again. Well friday after the bell rang, ashlee stood back and waited for billybob and was like "you and candace flirt too much, yall need to go out" and he was like "yea i know, we do!" then after school she went to him again and was like "you should break up with rebecca and go out with candace" and he said ok. i dont know if he was saying that because he knew she was gonna come adn tell me and he didnt want to hurt my feelings, or if he really likes me. i like him alot! i dont know what to do. any advice?!
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I had to read the first three introductory lines a couple times to burn who-was-who into my brain! :P
And well, since you weren't there to actually HEAR the tone in his voice when he said "okay", it's hard to know if anything might be concrete. This may seem silly and perhaps not what you're wanting to hear, but why not ASK HIM about it? I can sit here and ramble off "advice" to you all day long, but when it comes to figuring out what's in another human being's mind... your guess is as good as mine (but even better, since you have the advantage of knowing him and speaking to him) And why not? If you two really flirt as much as you say you do, then you could easily bring it up with him. Just be blunt, and come right out with it.
You could say something along the lines of:
"Oh, hey... Ashlee told me the other day that she went up to you and said that you and I should go out.. and you said 'Okay'. Well, can you tell me exactly what'Okay' means?"
Then you could slightly turn your head in curiousity, and smile to send your interest across.
Personally, if *I* were in your sitation, I'd stay the heck away from Mr. Heartbreaker. Look at what he's doing. Okay, so he has a girlfriend, so that's all jim-dandy. But yet, he ALREADY HAS a girlfriend, and he's fooling around behind her back. My point here is: if he could so easily do that to HER... what makes you think he won't easily do that to YOU!?! Bad habits generally die hard, but rarely fast. And he's made it perfectly evident that should he ever lose interest in YOU.. he won't ever mention it to you... he'll just go off in his unfaithful ways and hook up with others. Sad thing is: that's a fact, because he's already DOING IT to someone else.
Tell me, are honestly WILLING to volunteer yourself to certain heartache??
At any rate, goodluck. [:
♥ Mackenzie ♥
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he could like you since he does flirt with you but he could also be trying to get Rebecca mad. Its not always a good thing to start something with a guy who already has a girlfriend because they are more apt to do it to you down the line. So my advice is, be nice just be friends with him but don't try and persue him.
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I think he may just like you. He's always flirting with you and you hold his hand till he stops. Then he just does it all over again because I think he just likes having your hands touching. When guys flirt a lot like this, it probably means he has some feelings for you. It seems like he likes you, though. I don't think he was just saying that because he knew your friend was going to go and tell you this. He probably said it because he ment what he said. Just wait it out and see if he really does break up with his girlfriend. If he does, it shows that he really does like you, just as much as you like him.
♥ Krissy
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I was in this situation before!! It's confusing at first, but if you flirt with him, he'll know that you feel like that about him, and he'll ask you out. I don't think that he said that becuase he doesn't want to hurt your feelings. He probably does like you!
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these are really good signs..from what you tell me the flirting is real..and he seems to like you. i think he meant what he said. so give it a couple days..and get your friend to talk to him more ...its lookin good though...i think things are going to work out
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I think you should approach him and be like "Was good?" Like, what is going on here, you know. If you feel the vibe and he feels the vibe, then ya'll need to go for it. Yes, girls say guys are jerks for breaking up with their girlfriends. But I would much rather respect a guy for breaking up with me then leading me on, ya know. You can either initiate it, or wait it out and see what he does. Whatever you do, don't keep having Ashlee be your messanger. That gets annoying and messages get mixed up. I know whatever you chose to do, it'll work out for the best! CARPE DIEM! SIEZE THE DAY! Live life with no regrets gurl! Let me know how it goes! Hugs and Kisses! ~*Alyssa-Beth*~
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