Hey im the one who was talking about the best friend and how she was flirting with the guys i like. first off i would say that your advice helped more than anyones but i was wondering how would i talk to her about it. bc all i have to do is say 1 wrong thing and what im trying to say could be taken in a whole different way. And she really is a good friend other than this whole guy thing. And since shes my best friend its really hard to like keep stuff from her so its not like i can just not tell her who i like bc its like impossible. Please help me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? BeastFromTheWeast answered Saturday October 8 2005, 3:45 pm: Glad i could help :)
I know exactly how that goes. It took me forever to talk to my friends that did that. It can be pretty hard to figure out what to say. If she is your good friend though, she should understand and really take your feelings to heart. Just tell her that you notice that whenever you tell her about a guy you like, she flirts with them and sometimes it feels like shes rubbing stuff in your face and you dont really appriciate it. If you go about confronting her nicely than she shouldnt get upset or anything. She also might be trying to take advantage of situations since she is older. All i can really suggest is telling her exactly how you feel. Just be honest with her. Thats all you really can do. I can honestly say though, my girfriends that i had that were similar to your friend, didnt last. Even after i talked to them they didnt stop.
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