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you seem to get a lot of buisness haha .. yeah well anyways
theres this kid that i went out with a lot last year. we were really close .. so it was like best friends plus more. then on a week trip away from school .. he started to like this other girl .. who was sort of my friend but we weren't wicked tight. so he broke up with me (he told my other friend he was going to anyways .. and she told me .. so i saw it coming and confronted him about it .. yeah i'm all over it haha). then after that we sort of stopped talking a little .. and i guess i tried to move on by getting a new boyfriend. then he completely stopped talking to me. then school was over .. we didn't talk at all .. a few kids who did talk to him told me he like hated me and stuff (i had broken up with my other boyfriend by this point). i was just like .. whatever .. you know he hates me he hates me i'm not gunna get all worked up about it and beg him or whatever. it really did hurt though. then school came around .. he started talking to me alot more .. and we're pretty much acting like nothing happened over the summer and during school. and lately .. he's been telling me that he "loves me" and all that. then my friend calls me today and tells me that him and this girl jess (she's the girl he started to like when we were going out) were going out. i can't say i wasn't dissapointed .. but its not something to get all worked up about. i mean yeah i like him like him but i can't controll him or anything. but i don't know .. cause he was telling me he loved me and being all flirty and stuff .. so i don't know if it was just like an act or he really likes me and just wants a girlfriend or likes jess and me or doesn't like me anymore (which would be weird .. because last night he told me he loved me again). should i ask him about it and make him feel bad like oh i thought you liked me blah blah blah .. or just let it go .. be like yeah i heard your going out with her and just end it there. so i'm split between letting their relationship go on or tell him that i thought he liked me and possibly make him break up with her. i mean not that i want them to break up because its none of my buisness what they do and i'm not that type of person .. but blah i need help. what do you think i should do?
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dayum shortay that musta taken liek forever to type hah. but anyways .. if you really like him, and you want take that chance of him breaking up with her to go out with you , then go for it. but there is always a posibility that even if he DOES break up with that other chick he still might not go out with you. What I would personally do is not make him feel bad .. but just shake him back to reality.. iwould be liek "Uhmm so im confused at what you are trying to do ;; you say you love me then go out with that chick... and last night you said you love me .. i dont want to get my heart broken so decide what you want to do".....or SOMETHiNG along those lines haha. well i hope i helped .. drop by the inbox to tell me how everything goes.
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