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Is it normal
A bit long hey, I'm involved with this guy the beggining of our relationshirp he told me that he is not a pefect boyfriend and he has been alone for a long time so and he doest want to get emotional hooked to me since he avoid being hurt, but he is inlove with me he doesnt wanna loose me so my problem I'm from a relationship which was more like a commitment so now I find it so unusuall the way things happen to my current relationship,for example he does'nt give himself more time to spend with me he likes being with his friends more than anything in his life he calls even after three days and ther's no reason not to, he doesnt give me that attention but what is amazing in his friends, work he always talk about me introduces me to all these peaple as if we one of happily family what is strange when we are to gether we enjoy a lot we dont fight at all so some times it looks like I think the worst of him because he sees nothing wrong from this relationship Ieven ask myself if i want to live him why I dont have a reason because we dont fight at all He does nothing wrong besides his ignorance is it a charector or he is not crazy
about me?because i'm not happy sometimes I miss him so bad but i know where he is I sometimes go through his phone wondering who does he calls I'will finds his friends all the way, and he does'nt like girls I tried to trap him on that i found nothing, so confused pls help
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hey ok im like that to been alone for a long time dont want to get emotionally hooked so if you want him to like you and not have problems prove to him you love him do something hed "really really like" try it out see if it works and leave me a message in my inbox if it does or doesnt
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It seems to me that he just doesn't know how to be in a relationship. I mean, he told you he was scared of being hurt and all that, right? Well, then there you go...there's your answer. He has been alone a long time he also told you, so he is used to being alone and not having to answer to somebody all the time. He is not used to being in a relationship again, so definately give him time to get used to this change, and of course, talk to him about this. Just let him know how you're feeling. He may not even realize what he is doing wrong, so by telling him, you would definately be helping A LOT. Also, you have to remember that he is probably hanging out with his friends and love his friends so much because that's probably how it's been for him for a while...just him and his friends. But now that he has a girl, that has to slightly chance. But, you have to let him know that. And, since he introduces you to everyone and talks about you all the time, I'm pretty sure he's crazy about you, so no need to worry there.
Well, good luck and i really hope i helped!!
take care hun,
Ash
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i think the only advice *I* can give is to talk to him about it, tell him that you think it is kind of weird that he says he is in love with you, but doesnt treat you like he is, and that you dont want to break up with him, you just want things to change a little bit, for the better.
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