Ok Me and my boyfriend just started going out about 5 days ago. I never go around him and we don't talk alot. In the mornings he comes and sits by me and I feel really bad. My friends boyfriend pissed me off cause my boyfriend came and sit down in his seat and her boyfriend FLIPED! He started cussing and everthing. It made me feel really bad. I wanted to say someting but couldn't. I never talk to my boyfriend and we have 'some' things in common and if it keeps on like that then I am thinking about telling him I just wana be friends. Do you think that right?
DouGhGiirL answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 7:17 pm: the only way you are going to get closer to your b/f is if you and him start a really wierd convo that makes both of you laugh...nothing brings a couple closer then humor but your friends boyfriend needs to go see a shrink about his yelling problems haha you shoukd give your boyfriend some more time to get used to the fact that hes not alone anymore and he needs to start acting like it..same with you [ DouGhGiirL's advice column | Ask DouGhGiirL A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 7:02 pm: Well, first of all, I think you need to tell your friend that she needs to get her boyfriend under control because it hurt you to see your boyfriend get yelled at like that. A lot of relationships start out dull and boring. Theres really nothing there, this is because you both don't know each other well yet. If you don't want to give up with your boyfriend, then start getting to know him better so that you guys will be able to have conversations. Ask him about school, any topic to get a conversation started. You probably have a lot more than 'some' things in common. You don't really know him enough to be able to idetify any shared interests.
NeVer_Noticed answered Wednesday October 5 2005, 6:28 pm: Hey, Well if you really lik him then maybe you should give it one more try but if you think it was better when you two were just friends li maybe you talked more ,or something maybe you should be just friends.......
WEll hope i helped..
Xoxo,
NeVer_Noticed [ NeVer_Noticed's advice column | Ask NeVer_Noticed A Question ]
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