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okay .. i have these two friends that have recently been excluding me. like, whenever i'm hanging out with the both of them, they tell each other stuff and act like i'm not even there, and since they both have boyfriends now, they always make plans and leave me out. like they make plans right in front of me and dont invite me and then say " oh, well we don't want to make you feel bad, so i guess you can come if you want .. " but, when i'm with only one of them and not the other, they are really nice to me. i'm not sure, maybe they aren't excluding me intenionally because they are usually nice and dont seem like they would do something like that. i've always been nice to then, and im starting to think that maybe i've been too nice to them. maybe i'm just overreacting, but it makes me feel bad when they do that. i'm sick of feeling left out .. is there anything that i can do to not let this get to me as much or to not be excluded as much ? thanks.
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I'm sorry you feel like that. I've had friends that do the same to me (not because of boyfriends, but just because). I've always then done my own thing or go out with other people. But thats me, and I've moved on because of them doing that. I've made other friends that don't do that kind of thing to me. Maybe you can talk to your friends though, and tell them how you feel. Maybe plan a day where the three of you guys can just hang out. Maybe go to a movie and then to eat something after and just tell them "I like hanging out with you guys... lately though, I've been feeling left out, or something...". Sometimes when people are in relationships, they tend to leave other people out... but it wouldn't hurt for them to set aside time to spend with just their friends. Suggest that you guys set at least 1 or 2 days a week for you guys to just hang out, the three of you or whatever.
I hope everything works out between you guys. Tell me how it goes & good luck.
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