i'm the only one out of my circle of 6 or 7 friends that got asked to homecoming, so obviously i'm very excited and i'm going. normally, all of us do pretty much everything together. a few of my friends were going to go, but they didn't have dates so they decided not to go. instead, they're all going out - to get pedicures, the mall, the movies, out to dinner, then sleeping over one of the girl's houses. i'm going to homecoming with my bf and 4 other couples, we're all good friends but still i feel SO LEFT OUT! they're all rubbing it in my face saying "yeah you're gonna have fun, but i'm SO EXCITED! we're gonna have SO MUCH FUN!" and it's turning into this big issue. i don't want to accuse anyone, but do you think they're jealous? because most of them asked someone and got turned down, and someone asked me, so i was excited. they keep telling me about how much fun they're going to have & i feel so guilty now, going and everything and missing out on an awesome night. should i feel guilty? i know i'm going to have SO much fun with all of my other friends, but they keep getting mad because i'm so excited! it's not wrong for me to be excited! do you think they're jealous?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Teza answered Tuesday October 4 2005, 3:29 pm: Woah.. friends do this stuff a lot but in the end you have to remember you guys are all friends. You both are going to have eather way. They might be jelous that they didn't get asked and you did. You guys shouldn't be worrying and argueing about this though. You should talk to them and tell them that you all should go to homecomming. Having a date or not is nothing big. Eather way if you guys are together you will have fun. You guys could have a sleep over after and do whatever. When they say that they are going to have fun, try and be happy for them and say you will have fun to. Maybe the next day you guys can make some plans. Anyways, have fun. I mean this will all pass in a day. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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