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Bad Bad Situation
In the words of Bowling For Soup, this is a BAD BAD situation. I'm 13, a girl, and I hope to think in love with my boyfriend Kenny, but I went and did the most retarded thing ever and cheated on him. We aren't really kissing at all yet in our relationship, and I have a friend who I was crushing on before I started going out with Kenny. I was hanging out with him (him being TJ) and I kinda made out with him for a while. Kenny was out of town when this happened, but when I got to the football game that night (with TJ, my friend and her boyfriend) I lost it and started crying. I felt so horrible about doing what I had done and didn't know what to do. I'm now stuck in a horrible position with just about everyone but him knowing what happened. I really regret making out with TJ, and I need to know if I tell Kenny or not. Everyone's telling me I should, but I am going to lose it when his heart's broken. I really love him, and can't believe I did what I did, but I did. Do I tell, or do I pretend it never happened?
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Okay, you said "hope to think you're in love".. if there's ANY doubt, any reason that you have to say "hope to think" instead of "i'm in love" then you aren't. Period. There shouldn't be one doubt. But that's not the point.
You HAVE to tell him. Lying isn't the right thing to do and if you ARE in love then he will probably forgive you in time. But you have to talk to him. Hopefully stuff gets worked out!
♥ Melissa
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I'm sorry to say this, but you're 13 and do not know love. You can tell me that you do all you want, I'll never believe it. As for what happened, tell him. Take some responsibility for what you did. If you lose him, oh well. It's your fault for cheating on him. But remember, you're 13, you have your whole life to find guys.
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If you don't tell him, someone will. Better he hears it from you.
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