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Confused


Question Posted Friday September 30 2005, 7:16 am

There is this guy I met online that I am really in too. I think he is in too me also but I am not sure if he is sincere or playing games with me. I don't know how to find out either. I have to just put my trust in someone that I have never met and that is hard. And trusting someone always leads to getting hurt. The situation is complicated because I am living with someone and not sure what to do about that relationship. I have so many things going on in my life right now that I just didn't need this, but then we don't really have control over things like this. We were talking about taking a vacation together so we can meet. I am afraid to plan a vacation thinking there is a chance he might back out on me. I just don't know what to do. I don't know what to do about anything right now. I am so confused. What do you think I should do?

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Jessvesta answered Friday September 30 2005, 7:24 am:
Seriously stay with the man your with he’s really nice and seems to make you happy!
Talk serious with the guy ask him straight out “about this vacation thing is it on or off?” if he cant answer without sending a smart remark or anything then you should think again. Maybe you should go on the vacation but book EVERYTHING first I mean everything! You should have a back up plan in case he doesn’t show up or something goes wrong, e.g. maybe you could reserve a ticket incase he doesn’t show up for the man you live with to come too! And if the guy does show up then the tickets on reserve and you can call up and say you don’t need it or something!

If you do decide to go make sure you have a number you can contact him on at all times you must be aware of everything around you, you may know someone on the net but in real life they could be different!

Choose whatever you feel is right
Jess

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