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ok well we have these friends, and lasy year one of them was amazing freinds with us, we always did stuff together and had soo much fun. but now he has a gf and he was still the same at first, but now he is a totally different person and he doesn't even know it. she has totally changed him and it makes us sad because he never has time for us anymore, his gf has an adive column as well, and someone said that they liked our friend, and she was a total bitch she said somethin like, well i wouldn't count on it we have a very strong realtionship right now and good luck with another guy. but she thinks its so stong and crap but they aren't, he is always out with other girls. one of the big problems is that his gf is a very stong christian, well she thinks she is, and he thinks now that since he is going out with her he is an amzign christian as well, but they are soo fake, sure they beleive in him and pray and are good, but they use their christianity against people! we really want out friend back, we don't know what to do. we have talked to him and he says sry and then forget about us 10 minutes later. we have tried so many things but still, nothing has changed. they have broken up and gotten back together so many times, and everyone knows that it should be over, even they know it, but their reputation ride on this relationship! please help!
* we want out freind back
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Right now, I know it's hard for you guys to hear this, but just leave him alone. You guys tried talking to him and explaining to him how much you miss having a friendship with him, correct? And what did he do? Ditched you both within 10 minutes. If he doesn't realize how much you guys care about him and what him back in both of your lifes, maybe he should find out the hard way. Don't talk to him for awhile. This girlfriend isn't going to stick around that long, especially when all they keep doing is breaking up then going back out. One day it's going to be the final break up, so ride this out. Once he does break up with this girlfriend for good, he'll realize what a bad friend he was being. He'll feel bad for not being there for you guys and ditching you guys all the time for his girlfriends. Friends are there forever, girlfriends aren't, they come and go. And when they do break him, he'll realize this.
♥ Krissy
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