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Lost of a friend
Okay, Me an this gurl have been for about 4 years. An she was going out with this guy an i met him through her. an hes pretty cool. I dont like anything more then a friend. but one night they get into it an she breaks up with him because she says she doesnt wanna be with anyone but really she is messing with this other guy. Well the guy she breaks up with calls me crying an i talk to him about it an try an make him feel better an it works! well she gets mad at me because he called me but now shes dating the guy she was messing around with. an everytime i try an talk to her she stops an then keeps walking and i dunno what to do because she is trying to get her ex not to talk to me but he still does because i was there for him when she was killing him but shes still mad at me even though ive tried to talk to her an she says everything "i have to go" so what do i do?
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This girl sounds pretty selfish. If she can cheat on this guy then expect to control who he does and doesn't talk to when they're not even going out anymore, she's also pretty deluded. She lost all claim over him as soon as she went off with the guy she's with.
She really can't fault you for being a nice person when someone rang you needing to be comforted and if you've tried to talk to her already the I'd say you've done pretty much all you can do with this girl. However, if she won't listen to you, try writing her a letter explaining the fact you only like this guy as a friend and that he is not only "her ex" but a person in his own right who you happen to like (in nicer words...).
Really right now this girl should be feeling pretty guilty about having done what she's done to this guy but it sounds like all she really wants is the attentions of two guys at once. Not cool.
Try not to lose too much sleep over it, you've done nothing wrong.
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ok iknow you tryed talking to her but tell her your serious and say if you dont like him anymore why do you care and she has a point a frend shoiuld talk to another freinds ex until she doesnt give a crap about him but if she was a good freinds she wouldnt care tell her well why do you not want me to talk to him or be like just bc u dont want him talking to me doesnt mean i dont ahve to get her to understand or explain it to her ex im sorry i couldnt give the best advice i hope i helped alil =] sorry
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