Question Posted Tuesday September 20 2005, 10:51 pm
ive been crazy about this one guy for 3 yrs! THREE YEARS! well my feelings have been on and off but i usually like him. i mean i only dated my ex to get him jealous (i know thats mean = \ )
anways this guy, nick, always says we'll get together and stuff but just leads me on and plays games. im fed up with it. should i just stop talkin 2 him completly? i want to so i wont get hurt anymore.. but i dont because hes a REALLY good friend = \
what do you think? thanks!!
Break the habit and stop talking to him. After so much time there is no reason for you to keep accepting his bad behavoir. Move on. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
XXkaiiOO answered Wednesday September 21 2005, 11:10 pm: well... maybe you should talk to him about how your feeling.... maybe have someone else tell him that you feel that way if you dont want to tell him yourself... or you could try kind of ignoring him and he will probally ask whats wrong and you guys should patch things up... but if you think he is hurting you too much i would just stop talking to him completly.... i mean if he makes you hurt that much he cant be a real friend... (i am going through a similar situation.. actually the same thing) hope i helped.. email me and tell me how everything turned out.. xxX_kLa_Ooo@hotmail.com
Swe3ti3boO answered Tuesday September 20 2005, 11:17 pm: Honestly chica, you should really drop him no matter how crazy you are about him. Your feelings are more important to you and your life than a guy who wants to lead you on and play games with your head. This type of thing is SOOOOOO hard to accomplish just because that drive to have him and that attraction for him is so strong, however, this is something you have to overcome. Play the game before the game plays you, you being in this and your vulnerability in this only leads you to playing your own self... best of luck and hopefully my words were words of encouragement... *MuaHz* [ Swe3ti3boO's advice column | Ask Swe3ti3boO A Question ]
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