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MAJ0R HELP NE3DED!!!!!
Alright so on friday this guy asked me out and i said yes..everyone said that he was self-centered and immature..i didnt believe them..but now i know why people don't like him. HE IS A FREAKING STALKER!!!! I have a stalker boyfriend. Every second he gets he spends it around me. He is always waiting for me before school starts..hes always at my locker..hes always looking for me in the halls and hes always trying to be by me. I need freaking space! So, now i wanna break up with him. But my friend (who went out with him last year/during summer) said that she broke up with him and she told him she wanted to break up because he was immature and she didnt like him anymore..and now whenever he see's her he says "slut slut slut" and I dont want him to do that to me but i definately want to break up with him. But how?! I need a good reason and I dont know what?! I think Im going to write him a note. Is that a good idea? What do i say in the note? When should i give it to him - before,during, or after school? I really really really appreciate your help you have no idea how much!!! PLEASE ANSWER ASAP!!!!!! THANKS!
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Ok, first of all : Are you positive you want to break up with him? Think of it, becuase he doesn't sound really stalker-ish, like he does, but not a bad one. It just sounds like he wants sto be around you and cares about you. Before you break up with him, just try talking to him first. Explain to him that you need some space and some time to be by yourself and everything. That you love how he's always around you, it's just sometimes a persons gotta be alone, ya know? ( or something like that ) if he gets like REALLY upset about it or something, then maybe be like," Well then maybe we should break up. Even though I don't want to, I need my space.." ( or something like that ) and just explain how you want to be friends still and you don't want him calling you slut like he did with that other girl. But if you are positive you want to break up with him already, then yeah a note might be a good idea. Takes away the fear of doing it to his face. Maybe just let it say everything I said up above. And it'd probably be best to give him the note before school. So then he's not around you all day and making you feel guilty or anything. I hope I helped! If you wanna talk more, just IM me! MELii x MARiiE.
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MELii
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