Ok i have a friend and weve been best friends since i moved here in the 7th grade.. until we came to highschool. (9th grade) We just slowly started not talking and hanging out. I miss talking to her and hanging out with her & i do try to talk to her and stuff but it seems like she doesnt want to talk to me. I dunno if i should talk to her about it or just leave it alone and cool down for awhile.. what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? XXkaiiOO answered Wednesday September 21 2005, 11:05 pm: you should try to talk to her about it.. tell her that you miss hanging out with and talking to her.. just tell her the truth.. and be like it seems like you dont want to talk to me anymore.. did i do something? and see what happens with that.. and if shes a good friend she should understand how your feeling and talk to you and hang out with you more.. hope i helped..
purplekitten answered Monday September 19 2005, 11:49 pm: It's important not to let friendship like that slip away.. but don't get too clingy either. I had a very similar problem a couple years ago.
Just do your best to stay a good friend. That means giving her the space she wants, but still making an effort to hang out and such. Talking helps too, make sure she knows how you feel. [ purplekitten's advice column | Ask purplekitten A Question ]
xO_aLex_xO answered Monday September 19 2005, 9:03 pm: well...if this friendship is important to you(which it sounds like it is...) dont let it slip away...invite her over or go places with her one on one...also just tell her how u feel. be like- i feel like were drifting apart- we should hang out more! it used to fun talking to you...we should hang out more like the old days.....also if you guys had like a fave movie- invite her over and watch fave or really old dorky movies...its silly...but a lot of fun...
X_Amanda_X answered Monday September 19 2005, 8:38 pm: As much as I hate to say this, you will probably just have to move on and make new friends. You are lucky that it's starting in high school. I'm in middle school and I've already had that happen to me.
But..Yeah this is what happens as life goes on. I found a quote that's really cute about friendships. "Friends are like stars. Some stay, some go. But the ones that stay are the ones that glow"
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