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my guy friend
i have a guy friend that i like very much and i want to go out with him... wew kno eachother very well and hang out every day.... i once gave him a list of all the gurls in the class and he had to say if he would go out witht them ... my name was in there and he said too good of a friend.... wat does that mean and how can i make him like me???(im not the prettiest or the skinniest) thanxs soo much and i rate hi!!!!!
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First of all, you don't need the mention the fact that you're not the prettiest or the skinniest. If he's worthy of your affection at all, that will not matter. But seeing the sheer fact that he claims that you're "too good of a friend" shows that while he may be a guy with good intentions, he is not worth the worry. I'm sorry, but his excuse is the easiest and safest way for a guy to turn a girl down.
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This guy is either trying to hide his feelings for you or he's telling the truth. By the "too good of a friend" comment, he probably is just trying to let you down easy without hurting your feelings. He may like you, though, so don't get your hopes down.
You can't make your guy like you, unfortunately. If you try to be something you're not and he starts liking you - you're only going to get your heart broken. If a guy doesn't like you for you, just move on.
There's nothing you can do about his interest or lack of interest in you. Just be yourself and everything will play out for the best. :)
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