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In love Yet so CONFUSEDD
I'm 17 and I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 months! I adore him so much! I took his virginity which I promised myself I would never do! Sometimes I think about breaking up with him because of stupid reasons but than I think about all the good things about him! I love his company and the way he treats me but I just don't know how I really feel about him! lately all he wants to do is sexual things and I've talked to him about it and he said he would calm it down, but I have yet to find out if he will! I really don't know what I should do! I also have another twist in this! I am talking to another guy! Like he is fun to talk too but he is totally crazy and I would never think about breaking up with my boyfriend for him! I just like to talk to him. Ever since I started talking to this kid my boyfriend has been asking me all these questions about him and like if he should fix what he is doing in the relationship! It so overbearing and I don't know what I should do! Please help me! I'm so lost! p.s I don't want to break up with him!
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The other guy is the problem. It seems like you are looking for a way out of the relationship that you are in.
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If you know that you'd never break up with him, then you shouldn't be worried about the other guy you're talking to. As for your boyfriend's sexual act, if he continues it, just remind him that he said he would calm it down so that he'll get the hint and stop. Its normal to feel new exciting feelings for another guy, every girl will feel that sometimes no matter how deeply in love they are. But, we can control what action we take with those feelings, and you just have to remember your boyfriend when you get those exciting feelings for this other guy. But, you need to be careful about talking to him, because your boyfriend sounds like he could be a little jealous, and thats a really bad feeling to have. So, be careful for your boyfriend's feelings on this other guy. You should start telling him that you want more romantic things done in your relationship, like the movies, or just laying together watching TV, the little things.
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that seems liek a normal relationship he is probably getting worried caause your talking to another guy. Honestly i think you should talk to your boyfriend more like try forming the type of relationship you have with this other guy. Tell your boyfriend he has nothing to worry about but you would like him to chill out over the sexual things tell him youd like to form a relationship where you talk more and that he makes it hard wen all he thinks is sex. Tell him that you and him have talked about this before but that you havnt seen any effect from it.
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The best thing that i can think of that might help this whole thing is sit down and have a talk with him. Ask him how he feels so you will know before you tell him how you feel. That way he wont try to pull it off and play you or anyhing. But i would advise talking to him and telling him whats wrong as far as what he has been doing and let him try to correct his mistakes. And if he dont correct hisself then you will have to decide whether or not you wont to keep things going between yall or not.
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