Question Posted Wednesday September 14 2005, 11:44 pm
well, me and my xbest friend always would fight and then i said to her (calmly and sweetly), I don't think we should really be friends bc we're always fighting now and its OUR fault, so we just stopped being friends and it wasnt so bad...it was kinda peaceful. Now she's mad at me for being nice to her bc she thinks I'm trying to be her friend again. I told her i wasn't and that I just liked her shirt but she just said she didnt understand wat I said. Now she formed a club against me and it really bothered me bc I dont know who is in it and it could be my best friends I have now. My best friend said that we should make a club against her, but I said no bc thts retarted. So we made a club FOR me. Now I just want her to stop with her club but I'm not even supposed to know about it so I dont know how to approch her with this situation bc I might expose her best friend (who she likes) and I don't wanna hurt anyone. not even her. help me!!! (sry 4 the length) 13/f
Okay. If you really don't want to stir up any trouble, maybe you should just forget about it. If you leave it alone, those girls will just feel stupid for creating such a silly little club. When they realize you don't care, they'll wonder why they bothered making a club to bother you in the first place. If she doesn't stop, you'll have to be mature about it and approach her. Tell her you realize that you can't be friends, but she is making herself an enemy, and you never intended on that. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
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