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older boyfriend
ok...so i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 16 we make out a lot, but we also have a lot in common. He said he wasn't going to pressure me, but he would really like to have sex with me. I told him i'm just not ready and he's ok with that, since we just started going out. But he asked if it was ok if he WENT DOWN on me. I said maybe...is that ok? he already puts his hands in my shirt and i kinda i like it. But i also don't want to be like a whore. (((P.S. i've known this boy for about 3 years.. so we know each other pretty well))) Also is it ok that i go out with a boy 3 years older than me?( he just turned 16 )
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do what you feel is the right thing to do.if you want him to go that far with you then that is your desicion.but just remember nobody can make you do anything.maybe you should try new things and since youve known each other for like 3 years then you should be able to trust him.(do you get what im saying?)i lost my virginity when i was 12 so dont feel like a whore! just because you do something like having sex doesnt make you a whore or anything like that!if you love him and love him then maybe you should try it!
hope i helped!!!
~much love~
cutie4u13
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You seem a little unsure about it, which indicates you don't feel ready.
Older guys always want to do more because they're used to getting it. It's perfectly okay for you guys to go out, but you shouldn't feel pressured to do anything more than you're willing to do, because you may regret it later. If I were you, I'd take it slow at first and let things progress. Jumping to oral straight away would perhaps not be a good idea.
By the way, you're not a whore. Plenty of people do it. It's just a matter of when to do it and whether you feel comfortable with it.
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