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So, suddenly, my friend, let's call him Ian, starts completely ignoring me. It used ot be when he saw me, he'd get excited, make a face, run over and hug me, but now it's nothing. I'll be standing with a group of people, he'll come over, and he won't even look at me. I asked him about it on AIM, while his away message was up (my first mistake), but I don't know if he got it. He never mentioned anything about it or changed what he was doing.
This may be a coincidence, but it seems he started acting like this afterhe became friends with this one girl...
What do you think I should do about it?
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Ian sounds like an idiot. Sorry, I couldn't help myself. I had to say it.
Anyway.. Maybe he likes this girl and is afraid that if the girl seems him with you, she'll think he's unavailble. Or maybe he's just goofy.
Talk to him about when he's there, why would you do that when he's away? He might think your mad, which is why he continues ignoring you. Or maybe you're just making it seem like it's this big huge deal that he's "ignoring you" when he might just not get in full "OH-EM-GEE-IT'S-MY-BEE-EFF-EFF mode".
Talk it over with him. If he's a good guy, he'll make you worth his time.
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