Question Posted Tuesday September 13 2005, 9:09 pm
okay i broke up with my boyfriend, and my friend became my best friend and became friends with my ex. then i got back together with my boyfriend and all of a sudden my best friend says she hates me and calls me a blonde biatch and all. why is she doing this? she doesnt know what im going through. i have bulimia and she just fully hates me just because i am going out with my boyfriend
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? hElp_For_YoOh answered Friday September 16 2005, 8:22 pm: Ohkay... well i seriously know what ur going through!! i do.. but 1st and for most.. i know this isnt what its about.. but belima is a very bad dease.. and she should be helping you with that instead of calling u a biatch.. if shes doing this especially behind your back.. shes not that great of a friend.. just do what makes you happy and if means losing friends, well then you know the arent real friends..
LittlePip answered Wednesday September 14 2005, 1:46 pm: You are one lucky girl.
I think this 'friend' of yours saw you and your boyfriend breaking up as an opportunity to use you to get closer to him. No doubt you guys did the 'he said' and 'she said' thing. But maybe she was enjoying being the messenger for you and your boyfriend. Because it mean her spending more time with him.
So, now that you're back with your boyfriend, its obvious that she can't get with him. She's calling you names because she's jealous.
As for the bulimia, perhaps she can't understand your illness. A lot of narrow minded people just push things away that they can't understand.
I think she's done you a favour in showing you just what kind of 'friend' she is. Consider yourself lucky that she's pushed herself away from you and your boyfriend. Hope the relationship goes well. [ LittlePip's advice column | Ask LittlePip A Question ]
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