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Boy Oh Boy
Ok so this is a lot like a lot of the recent questions .. but i need advice. Ill try to shorten it ..
Theres this kid , Jerad. And i like.. really like him. So hes a year older than me .. im a freshman. And hes in about 4 or five of my classes and dome of them are lunches. Well ive only told one person i like him.and shes in the lunches i have with him too. tomorrow is one of those lunches and were sitting at the table next to his. So i was thinking .. if both me and my friend start "small talk" .. and it seems like he likes talking to us.. should i invite him to come hang out at the coffee shopm or come to a volleyball game , or something .. with us ? That way it wont be like.. one on one and i wont be as nervous becasue im pretty outgoing around my friends.and if we hit it off.. like as friends.. i was thinking of asking my friends to go to the movies or drive in this weekend.. should i ask him if he wants to come ? or at least hang out with us again .. then after a few times would it be a good idea to ask him to just hang out the two of us.. yooh see we dont live that far away.. its walking distance. So itll be like it convinient so why not. and also what should we small talk with him about ? We know hes new caz we asked him before.. before i liked him. and nothing corny or stupid please. haha ! Uhmm and any other good ideas please tell me. Im really not shy usually at all.. but.. idk hes the first guy thats made me so shy i barely talk around him.. but im ready so hopefully if yooh get me some good advice by tomorrow things will go better =). Thanks in advance.
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Asking him to sit with you and your friend in lunch, and even a volley ball game sounds wondeful. Its a great way to see if hes interested with out embarassing yourself!
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Okay well, I'd say definitely ask if he wants to hang out, but if you're going to have your friends there, let them have someone else to talk to. Let him know that it's mainly you who is interested and ask him question about himself. Where di you move from? What kind of music do you listen to? Do you have siblings? Seen any good movies lately? It's the simple questions like that that can get a conversation really going. Don't drag your friends into it just to feel more comfortable. I'm sure he'd feel better knowing you're singling him out and you don't need a friend to fall back on. Good luck!!
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That's a great idea! make small talk and invite him places with you and your friends. I know how girls get when their a little shy, so try not to focus all your attention on your friends. Ask him questions and really try to get to know him.
Ask for his phone number. most people feel more comfortable talking on the phone than in person. He might also not be a phone person (most guys aren't), ask him what he likes to do and just go for it. Guys love confidence. If you act invicible, you will definately land your man!
Good luck!
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