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Guys and Self...I dunno
I'm a very shy girl. I mean, I'm 15 (turning 16 on oct. 31st) and I've only ever had to boyfriends, one in 6th grade one in 7th grade (lasted 4 days, lasted a month). Now that I'm older I get extremely shy around guys. Well, not all guys, but alot of the guys my best friend is friends with that we hang out with. I have trouble talking to them because I'm scared I'll look dumb, so basically when I go out with my friend I stay quiet all the time and say nothing. That happens also with some other friends and around some other guys. Usually when I'm nervous like this I sweat ALOT. Anyway, then there are some guys I'm around I can act perfectly normal around. I don't know why I act different. I mean, it's not many. I have like 2 guy friends because I get so funky. But I can actually CHAT with some guys sometimes without freaking out. I don't know why I'm abnormal like this but it's bugging me because I really want to start dating.
Even though that hardly made any sense I'll attempt for someone to answer what's wrong with me that I act this way and how can I fix it!?!
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so you need to no how to get close with guys...well i have the same problem sometimes. all you need to do is pick a random hott guy who you normally dont hang out with. befor you go and talk to him you need to drink lots of water and take deep breaths...then go over and just ask him how his day was. just try and get comftrable with him and soon enough, u'll be extreamly close.
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hmm..you juss have to be yourself. you shouldn't be afraid of sounding stupid er saying the wrong thing, because if they truly like you for you, who cares? you know? juss try to be open & honest, and juss be yourself. maybe if you talked on the phone er online with them, when you hang out w/ them in person you'll feel more comfortable. juss try different things like that. nothing is wrong with you. a lot of people feel that way. by fixing it you juss have to realize that you have to be yourself & that they're the same as you & you both will say stupid things, no big deal.
good luck!♥
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