Question Posted Saturday September 10 2005, 6:08 pm
Okay... My boyfriend Chris and me started going out this tuesday (9/6/05) I really like him but my friends cousin told me that he was kissing my best friend and asked her out. When me and him started going out my friends cousin told me that my friend called her cryin because me and him went out. Should I talk to them about or let it alone?
lucretia answered Saturday September 10 2005, 8:17 pm: Oh dear. I have already answered a question slightly similar to this today,about people named Kyle and Katrina (see my column). I would say that your best friend has , perhaps unintentionally, put you in a rather awkward position.Why, for example, has all this been relayed to you by your friend's cousin and not your friend herself? It could be , of course, that your friend is too upset to confront you directly: unfortunately though,it's just possible that she's being deliberately tricky and manipulative. Only you can know her well enough to tell.
There is, however, no doubt at all that Chris is behaving like a jerk. Dump him, and have as little to do with him as possible, for your own happiness and self respect quite as much as for your friend's. Good luck, Lxx. [ lucretia's advice column | Ask lucretia A Question ]
Razhie answered Saturday September 10 2005, 7:54 pm: Talk to her unless you want this to get really messy really fast. Don't trust the gossip you hear go right to the source and ask your friend what happened and what is wrong.
She wont be angry with you if you didn't know any better and will be glad you care enough about her feelings to find out the truth from her.
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