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there's this guy that i've met a couple of times, i see him at parties and shows. at the beginning i could tell he was really attracted to me, and i was attracted to him too. he used to stop and try to have a conversation with me, but now it's deteriorating. that is, he gives me a hug, and he doesn't even stick around to talk. he just walks off. he's so intimidating that i don't know what to say to him, or what to do to make him think i'm really confident and that i want to talk to him. because i do, but i just don't know what to say. i think he's lost interest in me, but how do i even become friends with him or get him to get my number? I CAN'T EVEN TALK TO THE DUDE! our relationship is totally stagnant. does anyone know how to take that relationship out of ground zero and move it up a level?
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I'm intriuged and impressed at your having made even the most tentative contact with a guy at random parties and shows. To be honest, that kind of used to be the way I would hook up as well-never really worked out longterm, but what the heck, it was fun.
But enough of me- what do you really want. A fling? A relationship? Plain old S-E-X? You don't mention either of your ages. You say you want to make him think you're really confident-don't, if that's not you. Just go up and talk to him at one of these shows or parties- aided perhaps by a little Dutch courage(not too much though, you don't want to be off your face). Just try to enjoy the whole party vibe, come out of your shell and let him see you talk to other people(not only guys, you don't want to seem like you'll flirt with just anyone). take care and party hard!Lxx
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If you have aim or aol, ask around for his sn, or ask him. That way you can talk to him without being face to face. Hope this helps
<33 Marta
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