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to become b/f and g/f???
Sorry this is kinda long but I need the help!
Last night me and a couple of my friends were hanging out with some guy friends from school at a football game. And during the game I realized that I liked the one guy as a little more than a friend. And now I want to go out with him. But the problem is I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me. (and im not the kinda girl that just likes asking him if he does). Him and one of his other friends were seeing who could get more hugs (kinda childish i know) but I kept giving the hug I like hugs and everything along with one other friend. One of his friends said that he should go out with one of us and alls he said was 'they all like me too much.' So my question is what should I do I really want to go out with him? Or what can I do to get him to like me as more than a friend? Or whatever else suggestions you got I'd like the help!
Thanx
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I know it's been said a million times, but foremost you need to just be you. Doing things just to get attention is lying to yourself and him.
Above stated, be nice to him and don't be afraid to be a dork and find extra ways to cross paths (without denying who you are). You already have an advantage by being his friend, but that also can go against you. You may be one of his buddies rather than a friend. While this would mean he already has moved closer with you, it's pretty well impossible to be one of the guys AND a girlfriend (they require different levels of commitment and behavior that generally are not compatible).
Don't forget though, being one of the guys or just a friend that's a girl is a pretty nice place to be anyways. If he's not interested in a little more, you're going to need to accept that, no matter how hard.
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Well to get him to like you more as a friend, talk to him more and go out of your way to smile at him, make him feel part of the group and that kind of stuff. It may happen in the near future you never know! Good luck! Hope I helped!
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