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ok so theres this guy and we're in a lot of classes together i really like him but im afraid to tell him. alot of my friends know i like him. but im really afraid to tell him is there another way to let him know that i like him or what should i do?
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Dear afraid-to-tell-this-guy-you-like-him.
The easiest (and the least painfull way, most of the time) is to just come out and tell him. Because if you play a guessing game with it (Like "Well he did this...does he like me because he did it?" or "He just said that..does that mean he doesn't like me?") then you are just going to complicate things and turn it into a completely unncecessary mess of false info and confusion, you know? Just pull him aside one day at school or some kind of social event (like a school sports game) and tell him how you feel, just be straitforward and honest with it. He is going to appreciate that alot more if you do it that way then if you send someone else to say it for you, you know?
But if you have to insist you are still to afraid to tell him yourself. Then you could just send your friends to tell him and see what he thinks and work it from there. Or have your friends hint around that you like him ALOT.
I think the best way would still be to just tell him yourself. Even though your super scared to do it, have your friends nearby beforehand and after, so they can support you and give you some confidence. It's just gonna be something your gonna have to do. I can definately understand you being afraid of telling this guy you really like him (I've been there before lots of times, only with a girl, lol). But you just gotta find the courage and confidence to tell the person how you feel, because if you are going to keep it to yourself like that and never let him know how you feel then you may never know how he feels about you. Take a chance on it! Let bravado take over and tell him!
I really hope this helps and everything works out for you, good luck!
-Ryan
P.S. If you need anything else, feel free to IM me at (AIM) Alpha0mega345 ok? Just if you need anything else.
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