well i'm a guy and our school has like a dance comign up. and well i think i'm supposed to ask this certain girl but i don't really want to go to the dance at all. and i'm scared if i don't ask her it'l like ruin ehr wholeee experience, cause she has like a lot of sisters who all had like "perfect fairy tale" dances and all. sooo i don't really wanna ask.. but i don't wanna ruin it for her.
Your first option will make her really happy but chances are she'll realize you're not having fun at the dance and she'll start to wonder. Your second option might hurt y'alls relationship BUT you could also do something more special with her on the night of the dance. Like nice dinner and a walk in the park or something like that. Maybe you could even talk to her and mention all this. I'm sure she'd understand. Also remember that sometimes you have to give and take a little, you know??? You both have to make efforts to keep each other happy. So for now, just talk to her and if she still wants to go to the dance, maybe it wouldn't be that bad. But try to comprise, okay??? I soo hope i helped you with that. Good luck!!!!
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