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He ignores me everytime i see him, is he just shy??
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I have been going out with Mikey for like 2 months now and i go see him all the time, but it seems to me that everytime we hangout he ignores me and worrys about his car too much and talks to his best friend Chris instead of me. Im his second real g/f so i wasnt worried at first. but mann its starting to get bad. I went and saw him yesterday and he barely talked to me the whole time and when i left all he said was bye. He calls me every night tho so when he called me i asked him if he even likes me and hes like omg yes i have never liked anyone more. so i was happy about that, but why does he ignore me?..I asked him and everytime he says, "when i see you, im like wow thats my gurlfriend, and i cant think of anything to say to you becuz i dont wanna fuck up"..How can i change that?..I want to like hold his hand, and hug him and kiss him and stuff.. I do sometimes but not all the time. its bugging me alot...does anyone know what to do?..i dont wanna lose him i like him way to much.
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He is jes unexperiecned. Why dont you try to start off a convosation iwht him about his car and whne you go out make sure its you two alone without his best freisn but dont take him away from his friends that is a big no no! When you go ouy hold his hand and when you leave give him a pec ont eh cheek try it from there and see what happens he pbviously likes you.
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Ok what you do is talk to him about it. Tell him if he likes you so much he should be able to be him self around you and be comfortable. And even if he fucks up he may be embrassed but you would sill like him no matter if he messes up. Talk to him and tell him that. If he doesnt change than you should break up with him and try your best to be friends. And hes probally just shy around you when hes around his friends. So talk to him and tell him what I said above. And I hope it all works out for the best !! xOox Hope I helped <33
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it seems like (no matter what he tells you the answer is) he is embarrassed by you. My ex-boyfriend was like that too. When ever i'd hang around him and his friends i'd feel as if he was ignoring me, and at school he'd like hardly talk to me and even avoid me and so one day i asked him why and he was just all like "but when i see you my mind goes blank b/c you're so beautiful and your personality is great and i just don't want to say something stupid around you." and i told him that he should feel comfortable around me he shouldn't avoid me. And it didn't change after i talked to him and it ended up that he broke up with me and i found out from his best friend that he never really liked me, he was just using me to get his ex jealous. so just tell him that he should be comfortable around you, and if that doesn't change break up with him and try to be friends.
i hope i helped!
good luck and keep me posted!
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i no what you mean.see im kinda like that too.even though ima girl i get real shy around my boyfriend when i first started going out with him.and it is because i dont no what to say and i dont want to fuck up...just like he said.if you want him then you have to be agressive.i notice that all of my past boyfriends were agressive to get me to loosin up.when i say agressive i mean instead of waiting for him to kiss you you should go for it youeself. you have to make the first moves hope i helped.
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