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Ok, about two years ago, I intorduced this girl in my neighborhood to my two best freinds. (who are also in my neighborhood) well the girl totally used me to get to them... so to make a long story short they are best freinds (those three) and I am not even part of it. My best best freind from that group never includes me she won't even say can we invite Jen? (not my real name) So that bothers me... anyway, I saw on one of their away messeges it said out to eat with my loves...m&m meaning these two other girls one in which who used me. I felt a paion of jeliousy... i mean i don't hang out with them that much anymore, but I just hink I am maybe jalious becasue the girl stole them from me... we all go to the same bus stop. and well, the only one I have seen all summer is my best best freind from teh grupo for like three days. Last year they kind of discluded me and now I think maybe they will disclude me even more and belive me, non of them will try to make me not feel that way. I don't know what to do and I would really like someone to help me. If possible, when you answer can you give me your IM adress so I can ask you anything else.. but only if you answered well! Thank you so much!
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hey, well i understad how you feel when you try to help somebody and then they just forget about you! well how it seems to me them girls are'nt worth to be your friends, if they ignore you like that dont even try to be with them! because your better then that and you defenatly can find someone who will respect you and will be your true best friend!! hope i helped.
xoxo brit
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Definetly, IM me anytime, at x3DryCountyGrlx3 you're going through a really tough time, and rejection hurts. I suffer it almost everyday, it happens in life. As sad as it is, and as painful as change hurts, it seems like it's just time to move on! Don't let your feelings rely on 3 girls who have backstabbed you! It's okay to be friendly but you don't have to be friends anymore! Move on, try hanging out with other people out of that group, and often if you can. Maybe they'll feel jealous or miss you possibly, and make an attempt to grow closer or apologize. At this point it seems it might be too tough and there should be no reason for having friends be tiring! It's supposed to make your life easier to have friends, and it's only making it harder and more painful. Though it's really going to be sad at first, time heals all wounds and give it a little while! Wait patiently and it will start to effect you less and less. I hope you can work things out... don't worry, you're not alone! People do this all the time... it may have nothing to do with anything you did, or maybe it did. But it's just life. Friends come in and out of your life quickly, but real friends just stick there! Good Luck, and you will find those real friends! Trust me these girls aren't worth the agony!
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Well they DO NOT sound like best friends to me. This kind of thing happened to me last year between me and my 2 best friends Katie and Julie. When I introducted them to the new girl, Amy, (who was my new next door neighbor), they all ditched me for a weekend sleepover only a week later! They made fun of me together, hung out without me, and more mean things. I'm not friends with any of them anymore. I have made new and better friends that respect me, and I think you should do that too. I feel like I'm a better person without that gang bringing me down ;) Good luck hon. Also - my AIM screen name is listed on my advice column ♥
♥ Rachel
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