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HEY! OK WEll..i REAllY WANT TO GO FURThER WiTH tHiS GUY THAt i REALLY LiKE && HAVE KNOWN FOR ABOUT 4 YEARS!! && WHAT i MEAN BY FURTHER..iS SEX..iDK WHAT TO DO..i KNO iM YOUNG && All BUT i THiNK iM READY!! i LOVE HiM LiKE A BROTHER && All BUT i LOVE HiM THE OTHER WAY TOO.. && i WOULDN'T MiND LOSiNG MY ViRGiNiTY TO HiM!! i KNO iTS UNRELiGEOUS BUT i REAllY FEEl READY..i'VE GONE RLY FAR WiTH HiM ALREADY BUT i STiLL THiNK WE SHOULD GO FURTHER!! i REAllY DONT WANT iT TO AFFECT OUR FRiENDSHiP BECAUSE i KNO HE LiKES ME TOO && SO FAR iT HASNT!! i JUSt DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO SOO PLZZ HElP MEEE! THANKS <33
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Child, if you're too young, why are you thinking of sex? Why pay for something for the rest of you life because of some temporary teenage sensation? And please tell me something, send me the answer (if you ever get one) But answer me this - if you know that it's against God's will... WHY WOULD YOU DO IT?!?!?! Plus, if you're so ready, why are you asking me? DON'T DO IT!!! Stop where you're at in the relationship..... actually, GO BACKWARDS!!! YOU'RE TOO FAR ALREADY!!! Backwind it. And please open your mind for just one second. Do you HONESTLY think that sex won't affect your relationship? You're relationship wil CHANGE GREATLY, you're thoughts will shift and sooner or later, turn to GREAT REGRET, and it WILL knock you down and out. I've watched many friends in your position turn the wrong way and they all turned out that way. And those who turned away from sex were greatly relieved, how would you rather feel? And do you HONESTLY think that HE loves YOU? And even if he does, does he love YOU FOR YOU or you BODY? Many guys around this age, especially in relationships like THIS ONE, are driven by the thought of getting in your pants, not true love. And yes, I'm being a lil bit raw (thought not much), but that's what it takes to get through to peoples' heads. And if this is who I think it may be, IM me. But I mean, come on now child, think about this for just a second. And LOVE DOESN'T FLOW AT THIS AGE!!! You may feel love, you may THINK you're in love, but you can never TRULY TRULY TRULY know love until you're past this age and not going in a relationship because of the promise of sex and being all over someone else. And I really DON'T think you're ready. I KNOW you THINK you're ready... and I KNOW you're NOT ready. Just wait and hold off. Back off, maybe even lighten up on the kissing, definately cut out the hand action. See where your relationship goes then and find out the TRUE intentions of the relationship. Hold off on the touching and the sex and most of the hot kissing (because if you hold onto that, you can't let go of the rest), and wait until you're older and out of college. AND MARRIED!!! Life will be much easier. Read the Bible too. If this is who I think it is, contact me or many of your closer friends, they can help you with the spiritual aspect. If you TRULY get in touch with God, you'll see your fault in this thought and you'll be much better off. If you need a Bible, buy one or I'll give you one or ask your friends or even your family for one. It will guide you. Just trust me on this one, YOU ARE MUCH BETTER OFF AWAY FROM SEX!!! Just please, for your sake, your family's sake, your friends' sake, HIS sake, and for God's sake, DON'T HAVE SEX!!! (and yes, i said his sake, it will knock him down sooner or later too if you have sex). And one last thing to think about - have you ever thought about what someone would say if you said, "Yea, I really like you... i'm not a virgin though." Or, "Yea, I really wanna marry you but I'm not a virgin. I gave it to another guy when I was a young teenager because I THOUGHT I was in love." Many people are turned off with the fact that you have already GIVEN (you can't lose, you give) your virginity to someone else. Do you want to take the chance of losing the person that you REALLY ARE in love with later on in life, just because of a decision made now? Good Luck, and PLEASE, PLEASE!!! make the RIGHT decision. I pray that you will. Goodbye, ~Cory~
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