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So hard to hate him


Question Posted Monday August 29 2005, 3:28 am

Ok i used to really really like this guy and i would contantly talk to him on the phone and he told me he love me but it was nothing serious and i new that. My friend claimed that he told her that he hated me so we 3 way called him and he didnt no i was there so he totally spilled that he hated me and i wanted to give up on him so bad but i couldnt i liked him so much he got so mad when he found out i was there so we called him back later and he told me to never call him back again i told him "dont worry about it" i totally miss him and i hate myself for saying this. i should totally forget about him right??

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Courtney answered Monday August 29 2005, 8:42 am:
I know it's hard because you really do like this guy and that is really understandable , but you deserve someone who will treat you with respect and this guy clearly doesn't. You deserve someone that will like you back and you deserve someone that will be nice to you . Someone who will like you. So think about what you think you deserve and see if he meets your criteria and look deep within yourself. And remember, you can't make him love you.

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Belladonna answered Monday August 29 2005, 7:49 am:
I can see why he's angry because you were listening without his consent. Whether he truly hates you is something only he knows. He could have just been saying that to your friend because he didn't want her knowing his true feelings. There's a number of possibilities; you can never tell with people whether they really mean what they say. You could try ringing up or sending him an email and apologising and explain to him you just wanted to know the truth. Then ask him if this is how he truly feels about you, and why. You deserve an explanation. If he can't grant you that, then yes, it's best to forget about him.

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