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cat fight?
Im not going to say my age because then you will prejudge me, so im a teenager female and im not new to the dating sence.
I have one good friend,just one-no others.Lets call him Jason. Jason can be overdramatic sometimes,emo if you will though he would never admit it to you.
I have a problem trusting people,because whenever i do they always betray me.I found Jason and i trusted him,we where best friends. He told me he liked me and then everything kinda fell we started fighting and then he said he didnt want to be friends.To make a long story short,i was upset because we pretty much decided it was over. I said "it was hard to sit there and just let you go" in one of my away messages.
He said " I'll never let you go,no matter how much i annoy you,i'll keep trying" and then signed off.
That made me smile.
I've always been crushing on him and that made me really know that he cares. But he betrayed me and i should be mad at him, but at the same time i want to just come back and be with him again.
Another problem. His exgf lets call her Ellie.
She still loves him,but he dumped her and Ellie and i have become friends. Like best friends.
I like Jason a lot. And if we do become friends again i would want to go out with him. So how can i tell Ellie,because im sure that he would choose her over me.
This many be confusing...its confusing me.
I hope you can help me. I thank you a million if you come up with an answer.
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alright i think that you should tell ellie how you're feeling about jason. then you should not be mad at jason just make sure you get your point across that you dont like being betrayed. then you should ask ellie if she'd hate you if you possibley went out with jason. and if she says yea wait a while she'll get over him soon enough. and if she says no, then ask him out.
hope i helped
ashley<3
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Does Ellie know that you know Jason?
So to try and put your question simply, you have a problem in that you have become friends with the ex girlfriend of a guy, who you also broke up with. You want to get him back, but you think that he would probably rather take up with Ellie than with you. I hope that's right.
I think the biggest factor in this is your friendships, and the way you act about it. Whatever happens, you should still be able to be friends with both Jason, and Ellie no matter what happens.
You should avoid trying to break Ellie and Jason up if they do get back together. It might be hard for you, but getting 'catty' about it won't do any good, and it would probably damage your image in both of their eyes.
Before anything happens, I think that you Should tell Ellie; "how can i tell Ellie,because im sure that he would choose her over me" The best thing for it is to tell Ellie everything. It shouldn't be too hard if you're really close, but you could always write it down if you have to. Just be careful not to write anything down that might give her ammunition in a cat-fight, incase she decides to start one off. Otherwise, just have a long talk about it. Maybe she knows stuff about him that you don't.
It's possible she had a good reason for breaking up with him that you don't know, it's also possible that she wouldn't want him back, and if that were the case, then you could try and get her to fix him up with you :P
It's a difficult situation for sure, but the best way to get around it is to tell the people involved what's on your mind, and let things happen, because even if you don't want them to, changing things isn't always an option- and will only make you look bad.
Hope things work out one of the better ways
-K
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if you go out with him keep it under raps dont tell ppl and make it all public just keep it a secret and just have jason tell ellie should move on cuz hes not interested in her and likes you or something like that.
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