hey megan i decided to come to you cause you give the best advise. well i've had this friend for about a year now. at first we were friends and then "bff's" on and off. she always gets mad at me for the STUPIDEST things ever. i've given her so many chances and everything. and one time she chose a DICK over a CHICK (me). she holds grudges all the time and for no reason and then when she says "sorry" she expects to be forgiven. i mean i forgive...but i NEVER forget. the recent thing that has gotten me so mad is that i borrowed one of her shirts and wore it when i got my hair done. i got it stained on the neck but i didn't mean to. i gave it back not knowing i stained it until she told me. i said sorry i'd pay for it and she said no it's okay. i'm oookay. then 3 days later she's supposedly mad at me because i wouldn't pay for it. i'm all WTF???!!! and so i called her im all what's up? i thought you said i didn't have to pay for it. she's all well now i want you too. i'm all how much is it. and she said 10$$ im alll ok. and she said WHATEVER BYE. and hung up on me. so now im not even going to give her the lame money. ook and then all this happened like a week ago. and she's held this grudge ever sense. so today she called one of my friends saying "did you tell her i was mad at her?" and i mean i knew she was. she freakin hung up on me. and then she told my friend to tell me she's not mad at me anymore. and i said i dont care im done with this. and megan im just tired of giving her chances. it's lame. she keeps on calling me wanting to work things out but who knows what she'll do next. i dont want to be her friend and she just bugss me. i dont know what to do. pleaase help. thanks<33
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? x0mgitzMeggan answered Tuesday August 23 2005, 2:41 am: Ok well your friend has major issues. A best friend is supposed to be there ALWAYS. Not just when she feels like it. And NO dont give her the money. She said no she cant be doing that shit. Then getting mad at you about it. That girl really needs to get her stuff straight cause before she knows it she isnt gonna have any friends. You really dont need someone causing you all that stress. A friend is supposed to be there not make you mad. Tell her you arent mad (unless you are) then just say you guys arent really frieneds that you dont need someone like her in your life. Unless she will really change. And if she fucks up again. Shes gone No Friends No Talk. Iuno Thats what I would do. MInimizee Thaa DRAMA!
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