i like this guy but i am afraid to tell him bc he is a year younger than me but i ono how he will react. please help
It doesnt matter, age is just a number. If you like someone then you need to tell them. I hope I helped. :] ♥
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i like girls. im a girl. i guess you could say im a lesbian? haha, but no i just recently started to like only girls. ive been into the whole girl and guy thing for a while.. but yeah. now only girls turn me on. Im scared to tell my friends even worse my family. help megan pleeease.
Dont keep this a secret from your friends and family. That is you, you cant help it. Its not like you chose to be like that. Its who you are and your family and friends love you so they should accept it. Think about how good it will feel to get this off your chest. Ok well you gottta just tell them. Tell your family first then your friends.. and see what your family says about it. Ok well I hope I helped.
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hey megan. its the asian guy.
so this thing, people just ask you questions. and you answer em?
like free consulting?
if its that, then hell, you should charge!
Ahaha.. nah. Its all good. I like doing this. :]
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omg ok im really scared, i just broke up with my 20 yr old bf....he saw me with another guy....i was in the parking lot and i saw him, and he had a gun...he put it to my back....nd said ill be watching u...and he said he was going to kill me...he broke into my house 3 days ago...i dont know what to do!!! then i see him wit another girl...and the girls is all like haha he never gave u PGF like he does to me!! what does that mean?!?! i freakin need YOUR help meggan!!! then he said im going to kil you and YOUR lil HJKG...but what the hell does that mean?!?!?!!!! im freaking out!! and my new bf is going to brake up with me bc of all the kaos!!! im so confused and mad!!! and then my mom just left me!! what should i do about everything!?!?
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hey can you help me please!!! i have a boyfreind...his name is jake...i love him to death!!! but my best freind just told me that he had sex wth jake....and jake is dening it...who should i believe? my best freind or jake? i feel so trapped...and then also he said that he wants to have sex with me...and hes always touching me 'down there' but i dont like it...so what should i do?! im not done yet...wen i was sleeping i heard this noise comming from my bathroom!! it freaks me out...and then it was my bf he snuk into my bathroom!! he ha da knife!! but my dad caught him and kicked him out!!! and then i walked into his room and i caught him having sex!! plz help me!! what should i do megan?!?!
what the fuck.. mm i really dont belive this one but.. all i gotta say is whoever this is.. your dumm ahah. but if its real.. you need to get rid of yer friend and boyfriend. Its not like yer bf is gonna admit to cheating, and a best friend wouldnt do that to you. mk
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okay. i dont have as much clothes as i would hope i would, but it's not like cheap stuff either. i like preppier clothes but i have noooo clue what im going to wear the first day of school!? and i have absolutely NO time to go shopping because i have a HUGE soccer tournament this weekend. :-\
what am i gonna wear?
Well Im not really good at advise like this but ahh.. just try a cute skirt and a little tank top, that always looks cute.
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i want to kill myself. not joking. i have friends and family. but.. not worth living for. my familys never there. they all hate me, or there to drunk or fucking high to even notice. i only have two true friends right now. and im grounded so i barely even get to see them. i got held back the past year, so i missed out on a lot with my friends. and the ones who.. im guesing didnt care enough to keep in touch i just miss. i dont know what to do, please help?
Dont let the people who hurt you bring you down. It needs to make you stronger.!! Fuck the people who dont wanna be there for you, you dont need them. You have your whole life ahead of you. Dont give up Please!! Seriously, you gotta keep going, who knows what will happen in a few months. Just keep your head up okay.! I promise things will get better. Your just having hard times.. you will be okay. Well if you wanna talk you can i-m me or something. ♥ I really hope i helped
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hey got this freind who being really jelous over me because i made an advice columist! she got mad at me saying she was the first to make one. even thought she only answered 21 questions. ive answered 17 questions and i just made mine today. this morning like at 2. ive gotting 3 ratings so far. and they were all 5!! but this freind is jelous and mad because i made one! dont you think shes being selfish!? what shoud i do!! HELP!!!
Well you sound like a complete asshole. You wouldnt know about this if it wasnt for her. You probably just made up all the questions. Try making up an "about me" in myspace like hers.! I bet you wouldnt get half as many comments // messages as she does. But its okay she isnt selfish she just really doesnt like you.! And its pretty lame that you count everything and asked me for advise about this... Since your such a great advise giver deal with it on your own.!! Ok bye.
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i want to break up with my boyfriend, but we've been going out for six months. i dont know exactly why i want to break up with him though, i guess its just that i want my freedom back, and i also dont trust him. the way i like him is incomplete now. i dont 'love' him the way i used to. what should i do
You gotta follow your heart. I know where your comming from I get like that too. You just kinda loose the feeling. And trust thats huge, if you dont have that you dont have anything. Just if you feel you wanna let him go then just do it. Maybe this relationship just didnt work out for you.. and its not your fault. Follow your heart.! ♥
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megan this is karloz munster. i just wanted to say thanks for being a best friend. and i really love you with all my heart. I love you soo much. i really do you are my world and more... just to tell you you mean everything to me. i love you megan. your beautiful and smart. im so lucky to have you as a best friend. I love you megan.
love karla
awe karla i love you too.!!
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hey megan well i have some problems with my stepdad! he is so mean to me! he does stuff to make me and bother me! my bros understand, but my mother doesnt!! thats the worst part!! she always thinks im making a big deal wen im really not! i have no one to go to!! my real dad died!! so i feel like im trapped! what should i do?!
Omg well i really dont know what to do. Try explaining not only what he does to you but how bad it makes you feel. Then you really need to tell someone else. You need to be happy not feel traped by him. If what he is doing to you is like against the law in any way like abuse you need to tell the police or something. You need to get him help and it will make your mom see what is living in her house.You need to get help. Well if you ever need to talk you can i-m me. I really hope your okay ♥
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Ok im going out with this boy. but like its hard cause i never see him he lives far. but he really likes me. but i dont know if i like him as much anymore. and then theres this other boy who i just met. and am waiting. to learn more about. hes really cute .lives by me thinks im hot. and i might have a chance. what should i do. stay with the guy im going out with. or go for the guy who lives close to me. who i might have a chance with.
Well just try to stay with the one you think would treat you better. Lets say its the one you only like a little who lives far. Stay with him, cause the hotter one can be a tottal asshole. And then maybe insted of keepign this all a secret from your boyfriend you should let him know, "Hey you live far I dont know if it will work out." and see what he says. Dont be scared eaitehr cause if he is the guy you think he is he will understand. And about that one who lives close.. just make sure you are really sure you like him more cause of the person he is then his looks cause the hot ones end up being the ones who treat you bad. But just go with your heart okay.!!
♥
Megan
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Okay, im confused. Basically i like this kid, i dont really know him that well though. so one night we were hanging out and we made-out for awhile, and then he said he liked me and all. i havent talked to him in awhile cause he went to maine on vacation but i really like him. all my friends are telling me he is just gunna use me because hes a player, but he seems like he'd treat me right.. what should i do?
Well if you really like him then you like him. Your friends cant tell you not to like him. But I suggest if he doesnt ask you out any time soon after he gets back, or he just stops talking to you then dont waste your time on him. Give him a chance but remember what your friends said ♥
I hope I helped
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okay i need advice. so like i dont think its going to work between me and my boyfriend. well i do.. but when we go to school i wont see him cause hes going to another school.. i love him with all my heart& its gonna kill me not to see him 9 hours a day everyday like i do.. im not sure what to do.. i cant/wont break up with him cause he means everything and more too me.. but then like i CANT like not see him for a long time.. me and him have already talked about it before.. and he tells me like "dont even bring that up.. i love you& you love me and thats all that matters.. ill see you somehow& its not like ill forget about you.. ..i always think about you.." megan i seriously need help a.s.ap.. baybee help meee!!=/..
Ok soo I say you do something like this. Since you love him and Im pretty sure i know how much ;] aha.. you need to have a serious talk with him. Dont let him say i dont wanna talk about it. This is something you really need to discuss with HIM. There isnt anything I can do. You love him and He loves you. You can make it work if you try. You can make it not work too. I mean really have a real talk about it and tell him everything you told me :]
i love you. ahah ♥
Megann
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a girl i dont know that well, but is good friends with my good friends invited me 2 her b-day party, but i was gonna be on vacation, so i told her that and said i couldn't come. she called me a month later and invited me to another party, but i was really really mad at the moment. and i bitchily said "i'm busy" halfway through her sentance and she was like "oh... ok" and i said "bye" and hung up. i called back and apologized once i had cooled down a bit, and explained it was just my mood. but she's been telling her friends (mine too) that she thinks i hate her. any suggestions to make her realize i have nothing against her (and start getting invited to her parties again, because it sucks, cuz she has them all the time and i'm never invited anymore)
Ok so she is telling ppl you hate her... have them say like.. She doesnt hate you it was just her mood. And maybe take the time out one day and just call her and be like, "hey ive heard you think i hate you.. I dont and im really sorry for my mood the other day. But maybe me and you can hang out sometime soon" or something like that.
well i hope i helped.
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hey megan i decided to come to you cause you give the best advise. well i've had this friend for about a year now. at first we were friends and then "bff's" on and off. she always gets mad at me for the STUPIDEST things ever. i've given her so many chances and everything. and one time she chose a DICK over a CHICK (me). she holds grudges all the time and for no reason and then when she says "sorry" she expects to be forgiven. i mean i forgive...but i NEVER forget. the recent thing that has gotten me so mad is that i borrowed one of her shirts and wore it when i got my hair done. i got it stained on the neck but i didn't mean to. i gave it back not knowing i stained it until she told me. i said sorry i'd pay for it and she said no it's okay. i'm oookay. then 3 days later she's supposedly mad at me because i wouldn't pay for it. i'm all WTF???!!! and so i called her im all what's up? i thought you said i didn't have to pay for it. she's all well now i want you too. i'm all how much is it. and she said 10$$ im alll ok. and she said WHATEVER BYE. and hung up on me. so now im not even going to give her the lame money. ook and then all this happened like a week ago. and she's held this grudge ever sense. so today she called one of my friends saying "did you tell her i was mad at her?" and i mean i knew she was. she freakin hung up on me. and then she told my friend to tell me she's not mad at me anymore. and i said i dont care im done with this. and megan im just tired of giving her chances. it's lame. she keeps on calling me wanting to work things out but who knows what she'll do next. i dont want to be her friend and she just bugss me. i dont know what to do. pleaase help. thanks
Ok well your friend has major issues. A best friend is supposed to be there ALWAYS. Not just when she feels like it. And NO dont give her the money. She said no she cant be doing that shit. Then getting mad at you about it. That girl really needs to get her stuff straight cause before she knows it she isnt gonna have any friends. You really dont need someone causing you all that stress. A friend is supposed to be there not make you mad. Tell her you arent mad (unless you are) then just say you guys arent really frieneds that you dont need someone like her in your life. Unless she will really change. And if she fucks up again. Shes gone No Friends No Talk. Iuno Thats what I would do. MInimizee Thaa DRAMA!
♥ I hope I helped.
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ok so my boyfriend wants to keep getting further and further in to are relationship we have been going out for 1 month and hes kind of pressuring me into having sex with him and stuff im not ready yet though. and if i dont have sex with him he might break up with me. what to do megan what to do.
First of all, its been ONE month. One.. 30 days. That isnt even close to long enough to have sex. If you arent ready you arent ready. It is a big deal, wouldnt you rather say, " i lost my virginity to a boy i went out with for 2 yrs" insted of,"I lost it cause he wanted to when we were going out for 1 month" Dont let him pressure you into doing that. I had a friend who had a boyfriend for 2 months. They thought they were in love and had sex after one month, the next month he cheated on her. I mean guys dont think with their heads. Please dont do that with him. Let that asshole break up with you. You really dont need that. Seriously if he doesnt like you enough to wait and realize you arent ready he is not boyfriend material. You need someone better then that. ♥ Follow your heart. Dont Follow His... well you know ♥
I hope I Helped.!
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Ok. Here's the thing. There's this girl who thinks I was saying shit about her. but I wasn't. Now she want's to fuck me up or w.e. I mean, I don't really care what she TRIES to do with me. Its just that, I don't want her to do anything stupid if she doesn't know the truth first. one of my friends started this whole thing. but then she confessed she did it or w.e. but then. this gurl, she still thinks I was the one starting this whole thing. Yes, when she started calling me shit. I called her a whore. but that was my first time calling her that. but she thinks I was doing it before too. and like I said. she wants to fuck me up and stuff. but if she tries to. then she'll be doing something wrong. I tried talking to her. I told her it wasn't me at first. but she won't believe me. What should I do?
Thanx
.. well you tried talking to her. Your friend confessed and you told the truth. There is really nothing else you can do. I doubt she will try anything, you know how girls try to act all hard saying they are gonna fuck eachother up. But if she does try.. when you two are in person just tell her the truth one more time and if she doesnt wanan belive you then thats her loss cause she might loose. But about your friend who started all this, you really gotta think twice cause she doesnt seem like a true friend. You dont need someone like that to bring you all this trouble. ♥
I hope i helped.
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okay heres the thing. i have had a pretty hard life. but i think i am doing pretty okay for what i have gone through. my parents divorced when i was little. and alot has happened. now we are all back living in the same house again. but they still always fight. me and my mom always fight. my mom has problems. drugs and drinking and what not. she yells at me and blames everything on me. my dad has lots of stress and yells and me and gets mad at the LITTLEST things.i try to ignore it, but sometimes it doesnt work. i dont know how i should feel or what to do!
You know what. Your young. You shouldnt have to deal with this. All the things your parents lack you have to deal with. Thats not fair for you. You really need to comunicate with your parents about what this is doing to you. There are big responsibilities they lack... &your really suffering from that. You have to communicate the right way though dont say, "you do this and you do that". Say like, "I feel like..." and, "this is affecting me like this..." and dont yell, when people yell you just dont communicate. Soo find a good time and have a real talk with both mom and dad. But all I can say is to take it day by day and eventually things will get better, wether your parents split or whatever, things will get better.! ♥ you can talk to me more if you need to talk ♥
i hope i helped
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hey I wanted to remake my room and make it something like this http://www.kohls.com/main/vendor_home.jsp;jsessionid=0001ZO3Z2FJ2UJLCT4YT0X3ZMZI:u1v27uba?FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=230963855&bmUID=1124676204661 my floors are all messed up I was wondering what do you think would look better wood floor or a rug what color Blanket cuz I like the strips that she has and all the different colors I have a like bubble gum pink on my walls now and I don't like it at all but I don't wanna paint it over so what would look good with that can you give me some places or websites where I can get more furniture
Hum well i dont really do this kinda advise i really dont know where you would go but maybe ikea.com er like the oprah webside cause she has that personal decorater guy lol, he is a part of her page where he gives ideas for this kinda thing. im sorry ♥.
I hope i still helped
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