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heyy. alright so theres this kid i met last year at the beginning of school. we ended up being friends and started going out. a week later he dumped me. then he asked me out again and i said yes. then he dumped me that weekend. then he asked me out again and we went out for liek 4 months or so, and he dumped me again because i thought i liked another guy. then i went out with this other kid, and i could tell he was alittle hurt. we stayed wicked good friends, because by then we were best friends and we could talk about anything. then i dumped the other kid i was going out with because i still liked the first kid. then we went out again and he dumped me because he liked another girl. then after he dumped me i guess i started to get over him, and we sort of started drifting apart, not being so good of friends. which sucked. then i went out with this other kid, and then we stopped talking completely. i broke up with the other kid during the summer. then i started thinking about the first kid (the one i went out with like 5 times lol) and i relized that i really missed him, not just as a boyfriend but as a best friend because we could talk about anything together and i couldnt do that with anyone else. so i just miss him. i had my friend who lives down the street from him talk to him for me and he said that he didn't want to talk to me because i "screwed him over". so i guess he like hates me. but the pathetic thing is, i think i like him still :\
so i don't know if i should just accept the fact that he wants nothing to do with me or try and talk to him.. but i'm afraid that if i call him he'll say something rude and hang up. he's never online and i think its tacky to have someone else talk to him because they would never be able to get my point across. so should i just try and forget or what?
thanks babe.
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Heyy hun. Well what I would do is call him up and talk to him about it. just be liek well i really miss being your FRiEND and how we were so close and im soo sry about everything. can we just start being friends.. JUST friends again?? and if he says sumthing mean nd hangs up..then its not meant to be.
if you are too nervous to call him... then write it in a letter and give it to him or have one of your friends give it to him or sumthing. the letter idea would be best .. he cant hang up, or interupt you anyway. and with a letter you can explain everything. idunno. which ever you like best.
i dont really kno whut else to say. so i realllyyy hope i helped! good luck and if you ever need to talk just iM me on aol. *sn in my profile* and tell me how everything went!!!!♥alese ]
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