alright well, i have these 3 amazing friends right, and when we are together, i have the time of my life, everytime we plan to get together i get soooo excited because it is always so much fun, they are the best friends anyone could even ask for, but lately, things seem a lot different, since 2 of them are upset with one of the other girls, it seems like one of them is upset with me too, and not even acknowleding our friendship, even though ive not fought with any of them, & i still acknowledge all of them and our friendships... what do you suggest i do to help get these wonderful gals back together???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? G0RGE0UZS-LiiPZS answered Saturday August 20 2005, 8:55 pm: odd how i knew this question was coming .. well when a friend tries their hardest to make another friend happy because they are upset about who they are/how they act and then in return gets called a name for no apparent reason .. they don`t see the sense in being friends with that person anymore .. possibly because this person is also notorious for these types of things .. so that tends to seperate people .. i don`t think your friend is upset with you because you haven`t done anything wrong .. you might spend a lot of time with your boyfriend but who doesn`t? .. that leaves two of your other friends who have never fought kind of out there and by themselves .. so it gives those 2 time to bond and seperates the friendship even further .. anywho back to the question how could you bring these friends back together? .. its not your job but rather that of the person who thought it was ok to say stuff behind two of her best friends backs and then act as if she did nothing wrong and totally disregard the fact that two of her best friends were ever there for her at all .. she needs to apologize .. and give it time cause these kinds of things don`t just heal up overnight .. hope that helped .. good luck [ G0RGE0UZS-LiiPZS's advice column | Ask G0RGE0UZS-LiiPZS A Question ]
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