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there's a guy I like a lot. I met him online. we are good friends and have a lot in common. I sorta have a crush on him. should I tell him? I'm afraid it will ruin things between us. I don't think he's into online dating and I don't know if he likes me in that way. I don't feel like I'm good enough for him. what should I do? I don't want to screw everything up but I'd luv to be his girlfriend. he's awesome.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LongLostHeart answered Sunday August 21 2005, 12:01 am: ...
Let me tell you something,and you may not believe it at first:
Online dating never works out.
I have never heard of a case that it has worked out with...
Anyways,go ahead and tell him,or he will never know.
Or,ask simple questions like if he has a girlfriend,if he says no,then ask if he has anyone in mind or if you can help him out.
Ask him about his hobbies,see if you two have alot of things in common,if you do then you can talk about that and he may build up feelings for you.
soccersamster answered Saturday August 20 2005, 3:51 pm: Do not talk to this boy ever again unless you have seen in and talked to him in person. He might be a 67 year old trying to make you like him so that some day you meet and he kidnaps you and rapes you. I wouldn't go that far! [ soccersamster's advice column | Ask soccersamster A Question ]
2nice answered Saturday August 20 2005, 5:33 am: i know how you feel. but things like that just plane happen.trust a person with a billion times of it happening 2 them!!!lol>and if you do tell him it wont ruin the friendship up, at the VERY worst he will say "ooooook".like if he was freaked out or supprized.
SoInToYoUx0x answered Saturday August 20 2005, 3:14 am: ok i dont think it is a good idea if he doesnt live by you because think about it. you will never be able to see this guy, never be able to kiss this guy never be able to do anything except talk to him. my advice is to not say anything because it really isnt worth it. and you dont know if twho he is is even the truth i mean it can all be a lie.. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
DonutHolez567 answered Saturday August 20 2005, 3:01 am: I agree with the other 2 ansers. tell him how you feel but dont go first ask and see what he has to say about u before you say anything. Also be cautios with how you rd what you say. Hope this helps lots an lots! [ DonutHolez567's advice column | Ask DonutHolez567 A Question ]
brunettecutie answered Saturday August 20 2005, 2:22 am: i think you should tell him how you feel about him. you never know, he might feel the same way. but you never know until you ask. so i think you should go for it!!
shagrubble answered Saturday August 20 2005, 1:41 am: I would find out what all he thought of you. Then be straight up with him and tell him that you have some feelings for him and maybe want to date. Then go from there if he likes you like that then try it and see if it works out. If not then still be his friend and find somebody else. Even though i know it will be hard to do. [ shagrubble's advice column | Ask shagrubble A Question ]
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