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I need to know what to do
I got this girl who is a friend. We have known each other for practically 3 years. Been there for each other, been though some problems as far as people together and then some. And as far as her i have some feelings toward her i have never felt before, i cant explain how they are. I have tried asking her out quite a few times and she said she is worried bout our friendship. I told her i understand that, but at the same time i aint been able to look at any other girl and say she looks good i want to date her.I am not going to stop being friends us cause of dating. Here recently she sent me an email saying she is thinking about giving me a chance. But then an old friend of hers comes in the picture and now they are going out. Of course i am heart broken now and am going to wait and see if i will get my chance to go out with her cause of how deep of feelings i have for her.The crazy thing is her mom or sister dont like the boy she is going out with. But as far as me her mom and sister love me as if im a son or a brother. With this screwed up situation and how i feel for her what am i suppose to do?
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K, Whenever a girl goes out with her guyfriend and they break up, they tend not to speak to each other, in most cases, or are embarrassed to be around each other. Make sure you guys are like the best of friends, then ask her out again. If her mom and sister (especially sister) don't like the guy she's dating, it can't last that long. Even if it does, you'll still have your chance one day and if you like her, you should try to get her. Girls like guys that would try real hard to get them to go out with them, but not too hard.. that's kinda stalker-ish.
Good luck!
<3 Kylie
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You need to talk to her and say If we go out No matter what happens with our relationship i will always be here for you as a friend or more maybe tell her you will always wait for her because you have such strong feelings for her Hope I helped hope your rate me ;)
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It seems there are a few reasons this girl acted this way. Either:
* She'd rather just be friends/has realised how much she likes this other guy but doesn't know how to let you down without ruining your friendship in which case you'll have to bite the bullet and start getting over her, realising there are other irls out there etc
* She would like to see you in that way but is afraid that a relationship would ruin your friendship, in which case you both need to talk about the realistic pros and cons of dating your friend
* OR She's scared full stop. Of the fact you know her well, that she could get hurt easily because of that and so on.
Either way if you are friends with this chick you need to sit down with her and tell her to be honest with you, even if the truth hurts. If she's really your friend she won't want to string you along.
Hope it all works out
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She shouldn't have told you she might've gone out with you if she was gonna go out with someone else, but anyway, I suggest just being there for her with her new relationship, and even though it'll be wicked hard, she is still your friend and you should do it for her. If her and this other guy ever break up, don't think you two are going to jump into a relationship right away. Be there for her, be the person she can talk to when she needs someone, and also explain to her that if you two ever go out, it won't matter with your friendship.
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