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What should I do in a situation like this?
So like my BFF is like totally in love with her BF who she has been totally obsessing about for practically 5 years but starting going out about 5 months and a half ago and I like totally really like this guy to. The problem is you know he is like going out with my BFF. My BFF thinks I like hate her BF. Which is so not true. I've been talking on my cellphone with her BF since May because my BFF wants her BF and I to get along. At first we didn't like each other at all because of a past situation like way back in elementary. But all summer we talked and I like totally like this dude now. He has been telling me that he is planning to break up with my BFF and she is so excited about their 6 month anniversary and she has like the whole weekend planned which is in like 2 weeks. He plans to break up with her soon, like before then. I know he likes me a lot, but he also likes my BFF, but he likes me more because he says he can tell me anything and that I am a great listener, that I like really understand him. Don't get me wrong he totally likes my BFF but he doesn't think they are right together. Should I tell me BFF about the break up? or should I let i hit her when it comes and during the mean time soften her up about him. Do I tell her I like him before or after? Or not at all? Should I chance going out with him when my BFF is totally in love with him? Help!
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wow girl that is a question right there. i cant really tell you what to do cept tell you that chicks before dicks. friends are for life, boyfriends are temporary. really it never lasts...unless you are older and ready to get married ...ya know? i have just read a book on relationships. it says if he will do it FOR you he will do it TO you. this means if he breaks up with ur BFF for you...he will end up breaking up with you for another girl. do you get it? i dunno if i was you i would just let the break up happen...then maybe 2 weeks tell her you have a crush on him...adn see what she says about you going out with him oor something...im sorry girl im no help am i? im sorry but i try. if you want more just drop one again.
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