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ok i've used tampons and i heard that if you use them that your vagina stretches out but i'm a really small person(width wise) and i'm scared that if i have sex with my boyfriend(who i've given head)that it's going to hurt really really bad because he's like 7in. we're both ready for sex but i don't know if i'm ready for excruciating pain.
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You've heard right, tampons do stretch you out a little. Even if you are small, there's a possibility that using tampons might have stretched you enough so that it won't hurt too much.
However, I won't lie, it does usually hurt quite a bit, but it's not excruciating (in most cases).
When my guy and I had sex the first time, I hadn't used tampons, or fingered myself, ever. So I wasn't stretched out at all. It did hurt quite a bit.
Some things you can make sure of, though - when (if) you do go for it, make sure you're well-lubricated. Foreplay is a MUST. Try to relax (the tenser you are especially down there, the more it'll hurt). Ask him to go slow and be gentle, and don't let him like...shove the whole thing in. (Excuse the bluntness) Shallow is good to start. I reccomend missionary with him on top. That way he can control how far it goes in, and you don't have to do any work.
It may be a little scary, but it's not as excruciating and "Oh my god, the pain, kill me now!" as people make it out to be.
Don't be afraid to say "stop", though, if it freaks you out or it's too much for you.
Because I'm morally obligated, use a condom, get on the pill, be safe, blah blah blah. ^_^ I'm sure you know the drill.
But overall, from what you said, you sound like you'll be okay. Tampons do stretch you out a bit, so you shouldn't have TOO much pain to deal with.
Granted it may hurt quite a bit - brace yourself for pain, and if it doesn't hurt as much as you thought it would, you'll just be happily surprised. ^_^
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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