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problem with a friend
hello..
i am having problems with my friend.. she always lies to me! its unreal! and me and my 2 best friends used to be best friends with his gurl.. will call her 99 and she just talked about us 3 all the time and then lied to us.. and we couldnt stand it. and we have been mad at her for about a month and 1/2 almost 2 and now we are startin to be ok.. and my one best friend.. well call her 87 and she keeps her word and we all said that we wernt gona be bffs with 99 any more and now 45 my other best friend and 99 made up and then are bffs now and i am starting to be ok with her now and i thought we were best friends then my one friend 87 got mad cause we went back on our word and she is right and it makes me mad that 99 does that.. and i dont know if i wana be friends with her anymore .. i just need help on wat to say to 99 and the other 2 girls and 99 misses me and prays that me and her are bffs again and i hope we can build up to that and i no we will always be friends.. if you could just help me on wat to say to 99 and 87 and 45 thank you!<3
i am 14 and a female
steph<3
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This is kind of confusing with all the numbers but I think I got it after reading it 3 or 4 times. LOL.
I think you should tell "99" that you WANT to be her friend but you are STILL trying to build up your trust for her. Tell her she always lied to you and you want to KNOW that she won't do that to you and your friends again! Tell her she made you feel bad because you are not her friend and she made you go back on your word, which isn't fair to you. It isn't fair that she did that. Personally, I don't think you should even be friends with 99. You should keep your other friends and leave her alone by herself. You have lots of friends and you should just stick with friends. 99 is not a friend because friends don't lie.
If she does, than she is not a very good friend, after all. It may seem like I don't know what I'm talking about but trust me... this advice will help you. I will try my best to satisfy you in answering this question as wisely and truthfully as I can.
I think you and 87 should have with 99 and tell her she lied to you NUMEROUS times and you KNOW for a fact she will do this again and you don't want that to happen. Tell her to lose your number and get on with her life! She shouldn't lie to friends. That's wrong! Friends don't do that to friends!
Tell 45 that you are still her friend BUT she needs to know what 99 did and know that this is not O.K and she can never believe anything 99 says because there is no telling what she will do next!
I really hope I helped you somehow...
I tried to put myself in your shoes the most. I want to help you and if you have ANY questions, please email me here or I have a seperate email address that is CURRENTLY not working but will be up soon. Anyways, it is x_pink_x109@yahoo.com You can still send me stuff there but I cannot get into it right now because my computer is doing some kind of freakish thing and I have no idea what so email me if you like! Give me your email address and I will surely email you!
About your situation, don't worry! It'll all work out fine...
just tell them that they need to get it straight!
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥♥ Double love!
♥ Kayla
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