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ok, well my friend and i were really close. We had some troubles in the past but we always got through it. We finally went back to normal and i did something stupid. I kissed the guy she really liked and now she hates me, what should i do?
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Well the first thing I would do is like apologize a million times. Tell her that you would do anything to make it up to her. But then you have to think: what do you want more? Something with this guy.. or a friendship to be ruined? Cause if you go with the friendship ( which you should cause you can't ruin a friendship over a guy ) just tell her you won't do anything more with that guy you promise ( i mean in ways of kissing,dating,etc. ) cause I mean you should still be abel to talk to him at least. And then give her time to think about everything, and give her some time to cool down, and then just call her back after a few days and apologize again and ask her if she has forgiven yet. And then if she says no, then just be like," Okay... I understand. Just once again, I'm sorry and I want to be friends again more than anything...I know I went behind your back, I'm sorry..just, please call me whenever you forgive me so I know and I won't be bothering you." ( or something like that ) so she understands how important the friendship is to you and yet you don't want to annoy her at the same time. But if you do want to go with this guy, then just try to explain to her how you feel about him. Just be like," I can't help it. I'm so sorry.. it's just I really like him, and he likes me back and I don't know what to do, because I want to be your friend still, but then again I like him...can we please just be friends still? Because I don't want to lose you ; but I don't want to lose him either." ( or something like that ) and if she does forgive.. don't really bring him with you guys anywhere for awhile or don't do anything with him in her face cause you'll only make her feel bad again, wait awhile and see if she's happier and feels better again ( maybe if she likes another guy ) cause then that means she's probably starting to get over it. I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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