Question Posted Wednesday August 10 2005, 11:27 am
I am switching high schools and my friends seem to be splitting up, and sometimes i'll find out that they did something without me like go to the movies, and i know i wasn't busy that day and that they never even called to invite me. It seems that we never hang out unless i call and even then they aren't always there. They are my best friends and i love them so much, i never thought that we would ever not be close, but i realize that the longer that we're apart i know the more they will exclude me...what should i do
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? thinkpink03 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 11:44 am: Well first, maybe try talking to them. Dont say "why didnt you invite me?" because then they might get annoyed, but just say "hey guys, we havent hung out in forever, maybe we should do something." If they see that youre trying to make plans with them they might actually want to do it. Just try to hang out with them and see whats been up. Maybe you can find out why they excluded you and talk about it. Since youre switching schools, you should try to make some new friends. I know they might not be the same as your bffs but atleast you'll have friends at your new school too. Over the weekends, try to make a plan with your bffs so you keep in touch and you wont just fall out of the picture and be excluded.
HoneyBunny130 answered Wednesday August 10 2005, 11:29 am: i am not sure how to help you. THis situation is pretty complicated, try talking to your friends, i know it might upset them but if they're true friends then they'll understand.. [ HoneyBunny130's advice column | Ask HoneyBunny130 A Question ]
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