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Hey. Im 13 and my penis is about 5 inches when i have an erection. Is this big or small? How big is yours wen is erect and when its floppy. I just want to know. How big was yurs when you were 13?
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It's not easy to get accurate information about this subject; I guess people tend to lie. :D
That said, here's what I was able to find out:
Average penis size:
- Flaccid, at room temperature: between 2.75 and 4 inches. The penis shrinks as the temperature drops, of course.
- Erect: between 5 and 7 inches long and about 3 inches around.
I'm afraid that I don't remember what my measurements were at 13; that was a long time ago. I probably didn't measure myself back then, anyway. As for now, I'm taller and bigger than the average American male, and I'm pretty much in proportion. I've had no complaints.
At 13 your measurements seem quite normal. You're already within normal range for an adult, and you presumably have some more growing to do. So you have nothing to worry about.
That said, watch out! Concentrating on size is a BIG mistake. The truth is, there's a lot more to sex than penis size - a LOT more. Believe it or not, but sex really takes place in the mind more than anywhere else. And what makes you good at it is how you *think* and *feel* about it.
Basically, sex is a form of communication. It uses the entire body. But it's your mind that determines what you say. Sure, genitalia play a pretty important role, but believe me, the VAST majority of women would prefer a thoughtful, caring, and imaginative guy over an insensitive jerk with an extra inch.
I generally recommend waiting until 18 for sex. The legal issues are actually not the biggest reason, either: the truth is, most people really aren't READY for sex until they've developed that level of maturity. They start too soon, and pick up bad habits that they can never entirely break. They also end up with a fairly juvenile attitude towards the opposite sex, and I think that they end up being less happy and successful in love.
But if you want to be a successful lover (in five years or so), the secret, more than anything, is to learn how to *listen* to your partner - not just what she says, but ALL of her. If you can learn to really get a feeling for how a woman is feeling, it will give you a huge advantage. That means listening and watching, and not being afraid to ask questions (within reason, of course; don't nag her).
Again, I recommend waiting until you're older. But in the meantime, assuming that you start dating before 18, try "listening" when you hold a girl's hand, or kiss her, or do anything with her at all. You'll learn all sorts of things.
Good luck!
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